Guy as a Girl Fantasy

[Anonymous]

As a guy I've had fantasies about being a girl and having sex with a guy, which means he penetrates me.Does this mean that if I have anal intercourse with a guy that I really want to be a girl being entered?

[Anonymous]

As a guy I've had fantasies about being a girl and having sex with a guy, which means he penetrates me.Does this mean that if I have anal intercourse with a guy that I really want to be a girl being entered?

you sort of say it yourself. it seems to be that you are just unsure of what you really want. but whats next? what if you do want to be a girl? is there anything or any difference its going to make? just kinda think along those lines. i'm a girl who when imagines sex see's herself as a guy. but just because i realize that does that mean i grow a penis? no. and it won't happen. so i just will go for the next best thing. use your imagination. its all you got.

[Anonymous]

Not really. I like to be penetrated... I like it a lot. But as a guy. I wouldn't like to have a vagina.

I fantasize about penetrating girls though...

[Anonymous]

Not really. I like to be penetrated... I like it a lot. But as a guy. I wouldn't like to have a vagina.

I fantasize about penetrating girls though...

is this the same person? your completely contradicting yourself.

[Anonymous]

As a guy I've had fantasies about being a girl and having sex with a guy, which means he penetrates me.Does this mean that if I have anal intercourse with a guy that I really want to be a girl being entered?

I have similar fantasies often, there's a pretty good bet you're transgendered. There's nothing wrong with that, and actually there's a bunch of us here on EC. If you really feel that you need the body of a woman, that's achievable, at a fairly high cost. Expect to have to pay it yourself, too. At least in America, no insurance company would ever pay for that. But most of us don't need that body. We know who we are inside, and take comfort in that.

Of course I can never recall names when I need them, but it's been said by this author of some pretty famous books about bisexuals and transgendered folk that men who either strongly prefer or require anal penetration to achieve arousal should definitely examine their gender identity. A strong preference for bottoming in anal sex can translate into a desire to be a girl, or even that you're transgendered and, mentally, are a girl.

Just some food for thought. I hope that helped.

[Kimi]

Hmm...I don't think so.

If you wanna look like them and dress like them then you might be wanting to be a girl.
But if you wish you were girl because that would be easier to get a guy, then I think that's different.

If you feel that you are girl, that's different story too:confused:

[Anonymous]

As a guy I've had fantasies about being a girl and having sex with a guy, which means he penetrates me.Does this mean that if I have anal intercourse with a guy that I really want to be a girl being entered?

I have similar fantasies often, there's a pretty good bet you're transgendered. There's nothing wrong with that, and actually there's a bunch of us here on EC.I don't agree that that's a pretty good bet. I think it's possible but I know for sure that I had similar fantasies in my teens and it turned out it was just my mind trying to come up with what it thought was a "legitimate" way of expressing the fact that I was super horny for guys and that I wanted to, well, get it up the ass.

There's a difference between being a guy and being confused over wanting to be penetrated, which in mainstream society is just a completely taboo thing for a guy to want, and being biologically a guy but feeling like your sex doesn't match who you feel you are.

I don't mean to say that what transgendered folk feel isn't similar but I don't think a guy fantasising about being a woman is FOR SURE an indication that he's transgendered. I think there's a lot more that goes on with transgendered young people than just fantasies about penetration (or penetrating).

[JSG]

I wondered about that too.
I'd like too know the feeling of being penetrated by a man as a woman.

oh and I'm def not transgendered lol
I'm glad I'm a guy

[Anonymous]

i agree that it may mean you're transgender, or it may not. i'm a girl and i sometimes like to think of myself as a guy, but i don't necessarily want to be a guy all the time. i think there's a spectrum not only of sexuality, but of gender too. as such, it's stupid to feel you have to call yourself "trans" or "not trans" because in a way, many of us are to some extent trans. basically, i think there's nothing wrong with the fantasies you described, whether you want to call yourself trans or not. just go with what you feel like. =]

[Anonymous]

As a guy I've had fantasies about being a girl and having sex with a guy, which means he penetrates me.Does this mean that if I have anal intercourse with a guy that I really want to be a girl being entered?

As the original poster of this thread i want to thank you all for your input.I'm not sure that it answers my thought but it does give me lots of ideas to swirl around in my head.Because that's why a lot of us are here is to figure out who and what we are.
And I am a guy and I do really enjoy having a penis.(!) (!)

[Anonymous]

As a guy I've had fantasies about being a girl and having sex with a guy, which means he penetrates me.Does this mean that if I have anal intercourse with a guy that I really want to be a girl being entered?


well hey, i imagine being a girl, i seriously try on my sister's clothes (i look fucken hot in a dress) but it doesnt mean i am one (even though I feel pretty).

but it would be easier to get a guy but you need to accept who you are.