What Does Love Feel Like?

[Anonymous]

What does Love actually feel like to you?
Me being young, Im not sure if what im experiencing is "love"

so..
Im interested..

[Anonymous]

can someone have "love" in fifth grade?

b/c in fifth grade i found out the kid i had a crush on since kindergarden liked me...so we were "together" for lik a year...and we're still friends...and i still care a ton about him....i definitely love him as a friend, but i'm not sure how much more... (by the way, i'm bi and female)

it's being wiht someone who makes you feel good, makes you laugh-can always cheer you up, who goes out of their way to see you, isn't afraid to be with you, won't let anyone break it up....

oooo....i want a boyfriend/girlfriend...

[Kimi]

I think love feel like...

Warmth?

I think...and I hope:rolleyes:

[Anonymous]

Im not too sure what love is but i do know what i feel for somebody...they make me laugh when i feel like shit, they can always make me smile, they make me feel warm inside and liek its just the two of use, they do things just to make you happy, they love you no matter what, and their with you through thick and thin

[Hollywood]

You can't think about anyone or anything but them. Everything you do, at least in the beginning, has something to do with them.

At least for me, when I got rejected, I stopped eating and went into a several-day state of deression that I still havent recovered from.

Love can really suck some major ass.

[Anonymous]

Hollywood was right on the mark--love is always thinking about someone and dreaming about being with them and just thinking of everything you like about them. and feeling kind of excited and warm and fuzzy when you think of them.

[BlasttheCloset]

^Oops, that last post was me--I forgot to make it un-anonymous.

[Anonymous]

Hmm... I would think it would be something like... Where you would be completely open about the relationship and you would have butterflies in you're stomach when you think about them.. And you cant wait to be with them and when you actually are with them you feel like the happiest person in the world..

But I really dont know, that's the idea in my head though. :confused:

[JeremyB]

That was me :dry:

[Midnight Angel]

Hmm I hear different things from different people. A lot say it makes you feel like you could take on the world or do anything. Others say it sucks. I don't know firsthand because it's too much of a gamble for me to want to find out for myself.

[Hollywood]

in the long run, i think its one of those things thats so personal you have to figure it out for yourself. theres no perfect, genaric answer.

[davo-man]

...Like warm apple pie? hehe

Anyway, I think it's individual to each person. Ive never loved in the sense of a boyfriend, but the way I see it that when you love someone, that person completes you in some way (yeah I know it's cliche, but oh well). Like my best friend who I have a crush on (yes I know, another cliche), when I hug him, i feel like there isnt another place in the world I should be (but thats prob cos he's a dynamite hugger)

But yeah, I think you need to find out your definition of love for yourself, but Im guessing from what Ive heard that you'll know in your heart when you love someone

[Anonymous]

It's like a constant state of butterflies in your stomach. Thinking about them... seeing them... getting to see them...




...Like warm apple pie? hehe

Thats a different kind of love!

[Jerr]

^Moi^

[Atom]

in the long run, i think its one of those things thats so personal you have to figure it out for yourself. theres no perfect, genaric answer.

I think this exactly, too. Maybe. And I've been asking this question about love for the past month.

I'm currently writing a paper in English about love, and I don't know if I can without having the passionate kind before, but I've sure as heck experienced love from family and friends, and I might be able to conjecture about passionate love.

I'm also in a relationship, and I'm questioning whether this thing is love, or what because I always have this feeling around him. I actually don't think it is love, but I'm not sure at all. We both dance around using the word "love" a lot, but we haven't really been together too long for me to believe that this is what it is. I just know that I feel so much happier around him or talking about him or thinking about him, and that's all. I don't think it's young love, it's more of young like.

[Anonymous]

For me I think you know that you're in love when all you can think about is that one person. All you think about is being with them and laughing with them. And you just want to call them just to hear their voice. And whenever you see them your heart is going a million miles a minute. And when they hold you it makes you just melt. And their smile is the most wonderful thing to you. That's when I think you know that you're in love.

[Anonymous]

i have a hard time decifering my feelings between love and good friendship. which makes it hard for me to understand feelings for someone and understand if i'm gay or bi. while pretty much all of my love like feeling are toward one gender i may have a few feelings that are hard to tell between love or friendwhip. i just try to tell myself that these are just friendship feelings. also when i think i have a crush on a same sex friend i know is straight i tell myself that its really not a crush and you like them as a friend. when i truely cannot decifer it. so for me its hard for me to say what love it. although when i think of relationships i've had its like everytime you see their name like on a text or email you smile and get this warm fuzzy feeling. and everytime you see them are like very happy and never want to leave their arms. you always think and talk about them too. for me i tend to draw hearts or their name or think that everything seems to relate to them. or if you see other people on the street you think look like them. you want to talk to them late into the night. just like that.

[bvtsjm116]

I wouldn't know *sigh*

[Behling]

its caring about the person more then you care about yourself
its always wanting to be around them
its knowing you will always love them and never forget them
its wanting them to be happy no matter what
its putting the one you love before you
its seeing the best in the one you love even when they don't see it in themselves
its always smiling when you see them
its never judging them
its not being able to stay mad at them
its wishing you could take on all their pain so they would never feel it
its wanting to protect them for any pain
its wishing they would be happy forever, even if it wasn't with you
its... impossible to describe, but I tried and did not do it justice at all

[SpikySpice]

There are two different kinds of love, one is you love the appearance of someone, the other is you love them for them

If you say love is to think about them and ll teh things you could do with them, that'strue, but what kinds of those things? Just liek normal things or sexual things? I like 2 guys, I think about them both, I think about things i liek to do with them, but those thinsg are different for each guy

For teh young age, it's hard to know teh different between a crush and real love, liek the 1st time you have a crush on someone and you think you love them but it's just a crush, love is something deeper,

"love is liek fire, or water, you wana drn in it' said one of teh guy i have a big crush on

Sometiems I hate it when I talk so some peopel on line and they just liek say I Love You, and I just wonder do tehy really knwo what love is, so I asked them to answer it, cuz I knwo they lie, or they just love the outside of me, not me, teh whole me

Love is natural, cant force it, if you do, then it'll explode in your face, you'll be like a crashing airplane When say you love someone, you have to be responsible for them, be able to forgive, forget bout their mistakes

But stay away from love cuz it hurts XD, but if you wanna love, you have to be willign to get hurt

[Anonymous]

When you hug someone and feel safe, that is love.
When you kiss them and feel like there is nowhere else in the world you would rather be, that is love.
When you find yourself thinking about them and missing them, that is love.
When you feel warm and safe when you think about them, that is love.
When you like them for their imperfections, not in spite of them, that is love.
When you spend time with them and never want them to leave, that is love.
When he or she makes you feel like you have never felt before, that is love.

[Gamer am I]

That was me. :icon_roll

[Anonymous]

When you hug someone and feel safe, that is love.
When you kiss them and feel like there is nowhere else in the world you would rather be, that is love.
When you find yourself thinking about them and missing them, that is love.
When you feel warm and safe when you think about them, that is love.
When you like them for their imperfections, not in spite of them, that is love.
When you spend time with them and never want them to leave, that is love.
When he or she makes you feel like you have never felt before, that is love.

That was perfect. And that really sums it up. That's what I feel now.

[Anonymous]

Love is when the other person makes you a better person, when you are less without them.

And love is quiet. Passion is loud but love is quiet.

[Anonymous]

I do not believe in love, all I want to do is get fucked by as many guys as possible. (WITH CONDOMS OF COURSE) Be dominated, get roughly done. Especially by older men

With women too, I love the female body.


For me sex is just...sex - no emotion for me, and never will be.


But I do believe in emotions, and I do believe in LOVE (just not when having sex, you do not need to have sex in order to love your partner. That is my headline)

[Anonymous]

I do not believe in love, all I want to do is get fucked by as many guys as possible. (WITH CONDOMS OF COURSE) Be dominated, get roughly done. Especially by older men

With women too, I love the female body.


For me sex is just...sex - no emotion for me, and never will be.


But I do believe in emotions, and I do believe in LOVE (just not when having sex, you do not need to have sex in order to love your partner. That is my headline)

I agree. Just like you don't need to be in love to have sex I don't think.

[jocr92]

love is when you know that you want that person in your arms and you want their warmth agaisnt yours. love is where you're heart aches and aches no matter what for that person. no matter what you do, you can only think about that person. You want to talk to them often but when you do, you get nervous or you look away or try to distant yourself. Love is when you come over that and talk like regular people. love is that feeling in your chest for that person. love cant be clearly defined in the dictionary, so how do we as human beings define it? we dont. its impossible to clearly define it.

[byeee]

its caring about the person more then you care about yourself
its always wanting to be around them
its knowing you will always love them and never forget them
its wanting them to be happy no matter what
its putting the one you love before you
its seeing the best in the one you love even when they don't see it in themselves
its always smiling when you see them
its never judging them
its not being able to stay mad at them
its wishing you could take on all their pain so they would never feel it
its wanting to protect them for any pain
its wishing they would be happy forever, even if it wasn't with you
its... impossible to describe, but I tried and did not do it justice at all

When you hug someone and feel safe, that is love.
When you kiss them and feel like there is nowhere else in the world you would rather be, that is love.
When you find yourself thinking about them and missing them, that is love.
When you feel warm and safe when you think about them, that is love.
When you like them for their imperfections, not in spite of them, that is love.
When you spend time with them and never want them to leave, that is love.
When he or she makes you feel like you have never felt before, that is love.

I don't think there's anything else to add to that.

[Lexington]

My friend once said it's "Disneyland with a hard-on". I don't think that's 100% accurate, but I still think it's pretty darn funny.

Lex

[Ty]

I'll tell you when I find out :p