gay? straight? bi? i dont know!!!!!

[Anonymous]

i am in need of some serious help.

k so a couple of years ago, in 8th grade, i started to have a crush on this guy named cody. and i didnt know what to think of it cause throughout elementary school I never felt one way or another about chicks or dudes. but i remember in kindergarden that when my class watched science movies everyday i would always sit behind this one kid and reach in his pants and feel up his ass and package. but then we moved to a really small school with only like 30 kids.

anyways..... in 8th grade i didnt really do anything about this crush except tell a few of my good chick friends and they couldnt really give me advice. but then at the same time as LIKING him (which was like the whole year) i had 2 girlfriends, which werent all that serious and only lasted for 3 weeks to a month each. so that totally confused me

then for 9th grade i moved to a totally new school (not just up to high school but to a new city and everything..) and i didnt have any crushes so i just thought whatever and moved on. but then everything changed. i met this guy Tyler and he is so good looking, so nice, and funny and just all around good. but he's straight. and im totally in love with him to this day, and i dont know what to do because theres not that much of a gay population at my school, at least not that i know about, and theres no one that i can talk to. i tried to talk to my friend courtney but i ended up liking her a lot and we almost dated sao that made me even more confused. so i tried to talk to my mom, and she just told me that it was a phase and that my body was changing. and i believed her and tried to ignore the feelings i had. but then they kept coming back and i triend to talk to her again and she put me in therapy. so i figured my way out of that.

and now its 10th grade and im in love with tyler, and in my heart know that im definitly not straight, but in my head im not sure. because theres this whole thing with this girl and its really confusing and i just have no idea what to think right now.

so if you have any advice or anything, please tell me.

[Anonymous]

lol im in 10th grade and i just made an account haha. idk either, im so confused.

[Anonymous]

Now, I know I'm at most bi-sexual because I can get turned on both both girls and guys. My advise to you is to just kind of hang out with him and learn more about him. If deep down inside he's not 100% straight then you crazy kids might have a chance. However if he is 100% straight, the most important this for you to do is not ruin the friendship by making a move on him.

[Kimi]

You want to know either you are bi or gay?
Or you want advices on how to deal with crushes(on girls and guys)?

I think you can call yourself bisexual.
And the thing is, you can be straight or gay next year. Like you said, you are confused and I do know that boys(straight, bi, gay doesn't matter) would be interested in other boys so you might be going through that now.
But if girl doesn't turn you at all, you are gay:)

I think there are few thing you can do about Tyler.
Here are examples...(Not good one)

1. Have crush on him as long as it last.

2. Go up to him and tell him that you like him. Even you sure he is straight.

If you go with the first one, you won't be hurt but it will be just crush.
If you go with the second one, there are few things might happen. Like somehow you two get along and become good friend even he won't swing that way or he might reject you completely but you'll be over with him(and possibility everyone might know that you are gay or bi) or he might be bi or gay too.

Though, I think a lot of people who is gay or bi find it difficult to find other gay or bi people because most of gay people come out after they finishes high school and bi people doesn't really come out.

OK..it's getting so long and I'm going nowhere lol

[Anonymous]

i would always sit behind this one kid and reach in his pants and feel up his ass and package.

lolwut?