Ejaculating Quickly

[Anonymous]

So I guess I really have a problem cumming quickly. Whenever Im doing anything sexual I really just can't control myself, and I can only last like 1 min, way too fast.

I was wondering if anybody else has/had this problem, and if anybody knew any way to fix or help this problem? If it helps I'm pretty inexperienced sexually, idk if just having more would help?

[Tzeii]

hmm try the "stop and go method" its when you masturbate you stop right before you cum, wait a little bit then keep going, dunno...its supposed to "train" yourself to be more in control of ejaculating??:tears: :tears: i forgot what i was going to say, and now it sounds dumb :tears:

[Anonymous]

The "stop and go" method is actually works but that needs alot of practices.

I think u suppose to fix your mind first. At this point you knew that you could only last for less than a minute. Be proud of it first, whatever it is!!!

If u manage to do that, it will be easier to try any method that u like. But dont do it too often, u will be obsessed of masturbating and it wont get enough till u reached the 'quality level' that u think long enough.

Take care ok! n BEWARE, it's addictive!

[JSG]

I don't last that long when I top either...
But any other method takes waaay to long for me to cum, hmmm

[Anonymous]

If you think or know you are going to get lucky later, what about jacking off a few hours before? It could help you take longer, but it could also make you less hot for it....

[Anonymous]

The next time your taking a leak,try to make yourself stop.It's hard at first but soon enough you'll be able to do it like it's nothing.That seemed to help me,that and a cockring.

[Anonymous]

I was purchasing condom yesterday and noticed that there are some that actually delay orgasm - to help with this problem. I assume they include in the lubricant something that somewhat dulls the sensation. So that might help.

Unfortunately, I have the opposite problem. It takes me AGES to reach orgasm. The medication that I'm on is partly to blame. What I've found is I simply don't worry about it. If I don't reach orgasm, that's OK. Similarly, if you orgasm too quickly, it's no big deal. Nobody says the fun has to stop when that happens. At that point you can focus on your partner, and you might be 'ready to go again' before they are finished!

[Bryan]

Try Jacking off a little more

[Connor]

Search the internet for masturbation technique sites that have instructions on how to help you ejaculate less quickly.

[Anonymous]

I was thinking about this last night but forgot to post on here. Anyway there's a technique called Kegel Exercises, they are exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles and are said if done regularly to improve control over ejaculation and to increase the pleasure involved in an orgasm. You can read about it here (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise) and here (http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/kegel-exercises/WO00119) but seeing as you are inexperienced sexually I doubt you will need to be looking into this anytime soon

p.s. It's important to read through thoroughly especially the second link because if you don't do it properly you could hurt yourself.

[Anonymous]

Stroke slower. i mean slow. this will help you last longer.

[s5m1]

Don't worry about it. It is very common in teenagers. Sexual inexperience likely has a lot to do with this. Your mind has a lot to do with it also. Because you are inexperienced, your mind is very aroused, in addition to your body. Try thinking about other things besides what you are doing at that moment. Also try slowing down as you feel yourself getting close. It takes some practice. There are likely some websites that can give you some more specific advice. Here is a link that may be helpful to you. http://menshealth.about.com/cs/stds/a/premature_ejac.htm. Above all, don't worry about it. Just enjoy yourself and time and experience will likely work things out.

[Anonymous]

you can also try doing it alot. THe more stamina you build, the harder it will be to reach orgasm. It's a mixed blessing.