one night stands or relationships?

[Anonymous]

Which do you prefer?

[Anonymous]

Hmm, one night stands as of right now. It might change later.

[Targirl]

Relationships, without a doubt.
One of my one-night stands was the most sexually satisfying experiences I have ever had, but still...I miss being in a relationship. Although it has to be with the right person.

[Gustav]

I definitely prefer relationships. they last longer(sometimes), and it feels like you are actually trying at something.

[The Enigmatic]

Relationships - although I've never had either of the 2 choices :lol:
But I would prefer a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Relationship though I've had neither.

[JSG]

Both are good.

[Anonymous]

neither. i only had a relationship but they are too much work and i don't want to do anything sexual with a stranger or not my relationship.

[Anonymous]

Relationships, they make you feel good knowing that someone actually likes you for who you are and not just your body...

[Tokarov]

^ oops that was me, forgot Anon. button

[Anonymous]

Both are good, but you need to be prepared to suffer the consequences, if any.

[GunStarre]

Definitely relationships.

[Kovax14]

definitely relationships. random hookups may seem like a lot of fun and excitement in the moment, but at the end of the day they have no value or significance. they could never be a substitute for a real, loving relationship ...in my opinion

[Anonymous]

definitely relationships. random hookups may seem like a lot of fun and excitement in the moment, but at the end of the day they have no value or significance. they could never be a substitute for a real, loving relationship ...in my opinion
It's not a substitute...
Some people manage to separate sex and love, I sometimes feel the need for sex so I go for a one night stand, relationships are complicated and end up by breaking your heart, I'd be in a relationship if I could, I have the need for sex but a stronger need for love, sex is easier to find tho.

[Ty]

Relationship I think lol.

Oooh gosh, maybe Im too young to be saying that ;)


/Ty

[Behling]

It all depends. For relationships you have to risk your heart being broken, but if they work out well the reward is someone you love to spend your life with. One night stands lack meaning and significance, so they don't hurt, but you gain nothing. Relationships are the best ^_^

[MonsieurGodiva]

Relationships are better, IMHO.

[Anonymous]

Relationships. No question.

One night stands are simply about the sex. In a relationship, it's the whole deal! Love, friendship, intimacy, companionship, support... and because all those other things are in place, the sex is WAY better than anything you'd get in a one night stand.

[Louise]

The sex is way better because the person you are with has only one thing on his mind... giving you pleasure, with a one night stand it's everyone for themselves, you might just as well masturbate and at least you're sure of not picking up anything nasty!

I say relationship without a doubt. Thatcrazything... it doesn't have to be a life time commitment just as steady relationship. I think your way of thinking/prefering a relationship is much healthier :icon_bigg

[Anonymous]

Relationships. No question.

One night stands are simply about the sex. In a relationship, it's the whole deal! Love, friendship, intimacy, companionship, support... and because all those other things are in place, the sex is WAY better than anything you'd get in a one night stand.I don't think that's necessarily true... I think you can have hot sex in a one-night stand. You probably would have a deeper more emotional experience having sex with someone you were in a relationship with but you can't discount the power of sexual chemistry. And often the people we end up in relationships with are not necessarily the people we have the most sexual chemistry with, often because sexual chemistry is dependent on taboo stuff, like some people get hot for people they know they wouldn't be compatible with relationship-wise. But just because you wouldn't date someone doesn't mean you wouldn't find sex with them really hot.

[Anonymous]

relationship is hard to find. u cud go for a yr, but end up bf-less. but an ons, u can get it in 5 minutes.

[Anonymous]

I used to frown on one night stands, but a few bad relationships changed that. I'd rather have a one night stand just because I don't have to fret about the other person not committing.