Who's virgin who's not?

[Phixit]

If you were someone on the street asking me my reply would be "none of your god damn business"

But seeing as though this is forum... No i'm not

[BitterEdge]

Im as Virgin as they come, never even kissed yet.


Same :( Who'd think at 20 I'd be in this mess.

[Master Hade]

im a virgin and proud!!! whoot... except a kiss would be nice...........

[acorn7]

Im as Virgin as they come, never even kissed yet.


Same :( Who'd think at 20 I'd be in this mess.

It's OK... Same here. You're certainly not alone. It will come :)

[Miaplacidus]

Im as Virgin as they come, never even kissed yet.


Same :( Who'd think at 20 I'd be in this mess.

It's OK... Same here. You're certainly not alone. It will come :)

Yeah, I agree, it will come. :P

I'm not a virgin in any way... I think I've already done everything :( But I haven't found the right guy yet.

Someone marry me... lol

[tylerksub]

Im as Virgin as they come, never even kissed yet.


Same :( Who'd think at 20 I'd be in this mess.

It's OK... Same here. You're certainly not alone. It will come :)

Yeah, I agree, it will come. :P

I'm not a virgin in any way... I think I've already done everything :( But I haven't found the right guy yet.

Someone marry me... lol

I'm also a virgin, not even a kiss. "Miaplacidus: How about a hug?(*hug*)"

[iNinjaTeddyBear]

Still a virgin and never kissed any either.

[matt3208pc]

Mhm still a virgin, it sucks sometimes, but i figure it'll happen when i meet the right person.

[BdeBesta]

Im still a virgin, not even a kiss! Kinda depressed! Everyone at my school has done it, im probably the only virgin

[gastro08]

I'm not a virgin.. well I have had sex with girls before... but I've never had sex with a guy yet.. but I'm in no rush...

[unouxx3me]

I've been with girls and boys...so the answer would be no I'm not =]?

[Bookmarked]

I'm as virginial as pure white snow...Did I mention I always hated snow?

However, I have had my first kiss with this random drunk semi-friend. I still don't think it counts.

[something witty]

Sex with guys just to try and mask my feelings for girls early on. And hide from others. I am still a virgin with girls sadly. haven't even been kissed, probably because i am so far back in the closet!= dammit lol!

[jony8472]

Oh you mean how did I "last" so long? It wasn't by choice, let me tell you! *grin*

Haha, I didn't wait that long, and I regret it. Well, I think that answers the question, I'm not. And I really regret it, hold onto it, wait a while.

[berileos]

Still a virgin,no kiss either...

[RaspberrySwirl]

*raises a virginal hand*

[Zūn Jìng]

Well after a long summer heres my stats:P

Hand: Given not taken
Oral: Given not taken
Penetrative: Not even ready to think about that

[Ronnie92]

*raises a virginal hand*

*raises two virginal hand*

[unsure13]

Still a virgin, both guys and girls =]

[Behling]

As of a few days ago, I'm not a virgin anymore

[DJ Sweetz]

As of a few days ago, I'm not a virgin anymore

Wow, in a totally unrelated incident, I'm not a virgin too ;)

[James]

Still a virgin.

[lolz]

virgin, and plan to be for a while..

never been kissed tho :(

[Todd]

me ... I never done nothing with anyone ... but I want to ...

[ctw0625]

i am and plan to remain a virgin until i meet someone special. and sorry, todd, but in my opinion, 17 is still too young, let alone 13. id recommend you wait at least a couple years if not longer.

[amyleona]

virgin, and plan to be for a while..

never been kissed tho :(


same here :'(

everything i did was either at my private, lutheran school, through their church, or my baptist/non-denominational churches(long story). then i spent a year liking a girl who no longer looks at me. joy.

i really want a girlfriend just to be all "f*ck you, you ignorant, moronic conservastis" to certain people that i used to go to school with. that really sounds terrible. i swear, im a good person, really. :D

[vampireboy56]

still

[happysky]

Still a virgin and happy about it.
Saving it for that special person.
And I think I found him.

[nluvwthagrl1010]

Well, considering I have a daughter, I am not a virgin, lol! :icon_bigg However, I have been with 3 women, and the one I am with right now is the best I have ever had!!!! :thumbsup:

[Hln D]

Ever since my last post here, I'm still a virgin :D

Never even been kissed...:(

[Vic]

Virgin. Whatever. I don't really mind. Never been kissed either.

[ColbieMarie]

Virgin, and probably will be for quite a while.

Never kissed anyone that I had feelings for. :(

Like only drunkenly made out with friends. (My gay guy friends are the best kissers)

Never kissed a girl. :(

[Maverick]

Lost my virginity to my girlfriend when I was around 15, had loads of sex over the years with my other gf's. I ended up losing my other virginity to my ex-boyfriend back in June.

[BlakeHarmony]

I've never done anything, ever... Never had a gf (or bf for that matter...) never been asked out, ever asked anyone out... The last times I held hands with someone, it was probably one of my parents years ago or in kindergarten/grade 1-ish on a field trip when they still made you hold hands with your "buddy".

[jazzrawr]

Ever since my last post here, I'm still a virgin :D

Never even been kissed...:(

*kisses you* :D

I've been kissed by both genders, but still virginical sexually. XD
(No gay girls here...*grumble grumble*)

[myra]

I'm not.
lost it last fall to my current boyfriend. We waited till we were sure we were meant for eachother.

[mk11248]

I'm not a virgin either. I lost mine to a guy I was with for 2 and a 1/2 years...

[Matty]

I am a virgin for "both ways". In my recent relationship, however, we fooled around a bit, but I regret it wholly and plan to wait for the right person to lose my "big" virginity...and I will wait to "fool around" again as well.

[nodoubtjunkie]

I'm not.

In both sense of the word.

[HHLLJason]

Still a virgin. It doesn't help that I've never had a relationship with a man though :(
A problem that I want to get fixed haha

[Zak]

Im not but it is a weird story and never want to think about it. and i now declare myself as a virgin again.

[skwidge]

I lost it to a girlfriend about 5 months ago :dry: ... and to my current boyfriend about a month ago :) guy x guy was WAY more my style ^^ hahaha

[mediumdietcoke]

100% virgin...
... but just kissed! :)

[Swamp56]

Virgin here ;)

[wherewulfe]

hand- nothin
kiss- nothin
oral- nothin
anal- nothin

god knows you lonely souls eh?

[Isabelina]

VIRGIN!

Though, I might be getting a bit close to the line at this point...lol. Especially with nighttime guy.

[Noah]

17 and pure and clean..

[Nova713]

I'm a virgin as well. The right guy just hasn't come along yet.

[Nixon]

not, girl did it though that count?

[FunkyMunky]

Still a virgin :(

[Chloe]

2nd base but still a virgin

[MOS KONIG]

Total Slut!

[vampireboy56]

14 and a virgin

[string3343]

15 and a virgin.

[RonApple]

Virgin and I'm ok with it :)

[NotSoNormalHuh]

16, Virgin.

[Adam]

Virgin

[Kenny9210]

Being gay and all, my straight friends considered me a virgin until I actually did someone, instead of getting done.
So I lost the first half of my virginity in January of this year, then lost the 2nd half in July. Don't worry, it was the same guy, and I've been with him for a while. I'm not a slut, but my bf still jokes with me laughing at how easy I was. Jerk. lol
But whatever, everyone complicated this. I was involved in sexual intercourse september of last year, so thats when I lost my innocence hah

[Starshine16]

22,still a virgin.

[Daniel]

18. Virgin in every sense of the word.

I think.

I got really bad poisoning at a party and my friends thought it was due to alcohol and just threw me on a bed. At one point while conscious I think two people were having sex next to me and I doubt I was involved but one can never be sure.

[BitterEdge]

20 going on 21 and still havent lost my V-Card. :(

[Apocalypte]

Not a virgin - with either gender. Lost both my girl and guy virginities at 19.

[musican]

Oh wow, u have girl friends who talk about that stuff? :eek: Like only my best mates at my last school ever talked about that. And like they only knew I did it coz I got caught, (but I seen them giving it heaps too, LOL :lol:). I would so embarassed if a chick was to talk about that stuff. :icon_redf

Embarassed?! :lol: You should see what me and the girls talk about, they treat me like one of them....you think masturbation is a conversation? What about tampons and pads? Blowjobs and sex? Hot guy in our class and who'd you like to f*ck the most?

Willie, we have almost no boundaries in our conversations, i don't identify with men and having to talk to them is like "Whaaaaaat?" to me. I can't understand a thing they are saying and im just nowhere near as open to them. Even with my mom, i tell her almost all my problems and talk to dad about NOTHING except "would you pass the ketchup". He finds out everything though mom.

Anyway im off topic but i can talk to girls about anything and they know they can talk to me about any female problem or w/e and i won't even flinch.

im sort of like that. im quiet and i alwayd hang out with girls so theyre used to it. sometimes they forget im there and they start talking about something that a straight guy would be uncomfortable talking about so i feel like i have to pretend to be creeped out. many people may think that im gay. but only 3 people know for sure and im noy ready for more to know so i pretend to be grossed out when it really doesnt bug me. lately i would just ignore it and not react, but sometimes other guys are around so i feel like i have to react, idk

[isnessofwhatis]

virgin to both genders.

For a long time I thought about answering one of those NSA anonymous sex ads on craigslist just to see what all the fuss was about with sex because I never got it. But then I realized I didn't want to have sex with men because I really wanted women.

[Nixon]

did it with girl

[tm74]

(sheepishly raises hand) - suffice to say suppressing my sexuality for so long left me with little chance - add in the religous upbringing and the rules "no sex before marriage" - and it's just not happened.

Of course, now accepting myself as gay may open a few avenues for fun things to happen in the future...

To be clear... "fumbled" (what I beleive the American readers here would call "getting to second base") with a girl about 10 years ago partly 'cos it was expected, otherwise nothing. Yet.

[keith2]

with a girl:
Hand - age16
Oral - age 16
Penetrative - age: 17
With a dude:
Hand - age 18
Oral - age 18
Penetrative - age 18 all in the same night

[Trystan]

naw I is a virgin :P I think...
i have white areas in my memory recently though... :S

[Kyle Tristan]

i still am :D

[thespanishheart]

I'm 18 and still a complete virgin.

No playing around or anything.

I've been very shy throughout my life --- I've finally got my eye on someone special, so I'm hoping things will turn out well.

[shulbert441]

I am not a virgin in any sense of the word. I have done just about everything with girls and guys. And to be completely honest, I really regret it. I only enjoyed intercourse one time.

[tomahto72]

18 now and am still a v-plater. I have had chats with friends in Manchester and they said their first time wasn't all that fab so I'm hanging on to that!

[James]

I'm still a virgin.

[Hidden Angel]

I'm a virgin no matter the definition, I've never even kissed anyone.

[mailline]

I am 100%

[Linkmaste994]

Um, 50%? Not inluding screwing around when your a kid 15. With a girl...hm I dont exactly regret it but I wished I knew what I was doing XD.

[Swamp56]

Nope -_____-

[Solo]

I'm a virgin, 100%, and proud. 8D
;]

[StandingUp]

I'm not

[Mood]

I'm still a virgin. And I'm keeping it until I find a guy that really cares for me. Even then it'd be some time before I'd lose it.

[Revan46]

I'm not and I'll admit I regret losing it to a friend, not a boyfriend. But oh well. I've also lost my virginity without a condom, yes I know its unsafe but it was with a boyfriend who was clean. But I still make note, people please use a condom if you are going to have sex. STI's and HIV are both out there and you can catch it. It won't go away anytime soon so protect yourself. I just got lucky, but there's no guarantee you will too.

[Samus610]

Virgin and damn proud.

[Reaper]

Virgin and damn proud.

Perfect for sacrifice

[mikeyjames17]

Im a virgin =/
Should be proud i guess. But would have preferred to of found sum1 by now.

[Mood]

Virgin...
but sometimes I wish I wasn't >.>

[SpielDog]

Sad But true, that I am still a virgin

[Swamp56]

Sad But true, that I am still a virgin

I don't see what's so sad about it :confused2:

[Halo]

how do we define virginity? I think everyone can define it differently. It differs from culture to culture and person to person. I like to know how people define it. :)

[White Sundog]

I'm in the notorious gray area. I've fooled around with a partner. I don't think of myself as a virgin anymore, and I think of my partnered genital activities as sex even though there's no penetration, no oral-genital contact, and minimal goo. But most of mainstream society considers me a virgin until I've done "whatever's the most intense thing you can do with your sex-of-preference", which in my case would be Tab A/Slot B.

If you count solitary activities as sex, I lost my "virginity" between the ages of 4 and 6. But I still think that to not be a virgin, you have to have had a partner.

[Zachary825]

Im 16 and a virgin.. i want to do it everyday but there seems to be no gays or bi people around here :(. and not out lol

[Swamp56]

how do we define virginity? I think everyone can define it differently. It differs from culture to culture and person to person. I like to know how people define it. :)

For me, oral and anal count as virginity for gay male sex ;) .

[Peter]

Haven't had oral sex in 25 years, never anal. I think of myself as a virgin. :(

[Swamp56]

Haven't had oral sex in 25 years, never anal. I think of myself as a virgin. :(

But you have kids, no o.O ?

[Halo]

how do we define virginity? I think everyone can define it differently. It differs from culture to culture and person to person. I like to know how people define it. :)

I think I like to start this as a new thread, it's amazing how everyone thinks of virginity differently and what it means to them varies. I have always been curious to see what others really think of themselves being a virgin. Does virginity really exists? the term Virgin has many gender roles within every society and how it limits the way we live our lives and how we see ourselves within that gender role.....

[ricoca]

I think for a gay guy losing virginity means having anal sex... so I'm still a virgin =)
and i guess it shouldn't be something i'm sad about, considering i'm not out and anything, but i wish that it's over too =)

[SpielDog]

Sad But true, that I am still a virgin

I don't see what's so sad about it :confused2:

Yeah at my school, everyone is not a vigin, becuase either your a vigin or losser I guess.

[SpielDog]

Thining hard, I might lose my viginity to a guy..

[jazzyspazzy]

I'm a virgin, but I'm only 14, so I guess I've got a while to start thinking about that kind of thing!! I don't want to lose it too young, but I want to still be late teens/early twenties. Cos I'm bi, there's always the question of whether you're going to lose your virginity to a guy or a gal. What do you guys think??

[Markio]

I'm so virgin, you got no idea! Why does it have to be so difficult for people to say that? Evidently not here, but I mean in real life. Maybe it's the word "virgin", it doesn't sound cool enough! "Clean" is okay, I guess... What about "Free"?
"Hey man, you branded?"
"Nah, man, I'm free!"
Maybe. There has to be a cool way to show off being a virgin. People shouldn't judge a person for never doing it. Or doing it either, I guess. I guess it shouldn't matter either way to other people, it's a personal issue. Isn't it?

...I'm free!

[Peter]

Haven't had oral sex in 25 years, never anal. I think of myself as a virgin. :(

But you have kids, no o.O ?

Yes, I have kids. However, I still consider myself as a gay virgin... :icon_sad:

[Midnight Angel]

Lol I'm basically the anti-virgin.

[Olivia]

One guy - countless times. 'High School Sweethearts' for about 4 years.

I've been single for two years now. I miss innocent cuddling. :'-(

[ColdSnap]

girls nay virgin
guys yes virgin

[Swamp56]

Lol I'm basically the anti-virgin.

*looks at own's missing v-card*

What the hell :eusa_doh:

[Lychee]

Very virgin...

Don't particularly like it.

[Trumpetplyer23]

I'm a virgin, but I'm only 14, so I guess I've got a while to start thinking about that kind of thing!! I don't want to lose it too young, but I want to still be late teens/early twenties. Cos I'm bi, there's always the question of whether you're going to lose your virginity to a guy or a gal. What do you guys think??

I'm bi, and I consider myself having a 'guy' virginity (sex with a dude) and a 'girl' virginity (sex with a chick). They're two different experiences in my book, so I count them as two different virginities.

[Swamp56]

It all depends on your view of virginity; since it's different for everyone ;) . I define it as oral and anal for a guy, and my other friend thinks gay people can't lose their virginity because he thinks it's exclusively man/woman.

It all depends on what the person thinks... ;) .

[vinylsoda89]

Still a virgin.

[Miaplacidus]

Lol I'm basically the anti-virgin.

*looks at own's missing v-card*

What the hell :eusa_doh:

:jawdrop:

(BTW, still NOT a virgin here)

[rainemc]

Okay ive only done sexual things with a girl :(
fingering- 2 times
getting handjob- 2 times
i gave oral once
thats it
we broke up shortly after...surprisingly were still best friends :)

nothing with a guy though

[justinishere]

Virgin here :smilewave

[littledinosaurs]

i'm not. But honesty theres nothing like superly great about not being one.

[starfish]

I am. I'm ok with it, but I don't want to stay that why for ever. There have been a few times I have been tempted to just go respond to some ad on craigslist and get laid. I really want to wait until I am in a relationship with someone. Sex is a very personal thing and I am not comfortable with just letting anyone get that close.

[Austin]

I'm not a virgin...

[RENThead]

im not :)
i supose i lost it when i was 16 (to a guy), but it wasnt my choice...

so i lost it to a girl, my choice, my way, about 2 weeks ago. kinda a just for fun, with a new friend...
it deffinetly cleared some things in my head....

[George]

Lol I'm basically the anti-virgin.

*looks at own's missing v-card*

What the hell :eusa_doh:

:jawdrop:


I second that motion!

[george678]

Virgin.

[Jenni7117]

lost the v-card at 17.

[ElizabethAnne]

Had sex with a guy last year.
Had sex with a girl this year.

I don't have either of my virginities!

Also:
>>>i supose i lost it when i was 16 (to a guy), but it wasnt my choice... (by RENThead).

-I don't think that counts. Doesn't it have to be consensual to lose your virginity?
What do you guys think?

[vinylsoda89]

Not a virgin...anymore. :kiss:

[Janvier]

I've cured many people infected with virginity :p

[friendsvme]

Still a virgin..

[Miaplacidus]

I've cured many people infected with virginity :p

You devil, shame on you. LOL.

(I didn't cure as many, but those I did, were really hawt hahaha)

[cjtom]

*holds up V card*

[Beth]

theres something oddly satisfying about taking a supposedly straight girls gay virginity

[JRNY]

hand yes i have an experience lol
oral no
penetrative no

[Sugar]

haha so funny last time i wrote this a year and a half ago i was a lesbian virgin!

no longer virgin either straight or gay.

[James]

Still a virgin.

[Nodnarb]

That would be a yes; still a virgin. And it's not something I'm entirely concerned about either.

[Beth]

what do you girls say when people ask if you're a virgin and you say no because you've had sex with a girl and people give you the whole yeah but its not really sex,you havent really lost your virginity speech?

[Sugar]

what do you girls say when people ask if you're a virgin and you say no because you've had sex with a girl and people give you the whole yeah but its not really sex,you havent really lost your virginity speech?

I say ``you moron!`` lol

Virginity is all a matter of perspective. If virginity means penetration well lesbians have penetrative sex too so...

[thebikelady]

I guess you could respond with "Yeah, but would you let me do it to your wife, sister, mother, daughter, etc.?"

[slipperyman]

Well I took my fair share of virgities in my day. ;D

[Time]

I guess you could respond with "Yeah, but would you let me do it to your wife, sister, mother, daughter, etc.?"

The thing is, you would get some yes's. xD

[Zachary825]

Virgin :(
God dam it some1 make me loose it!!!
OI!

[Swamp56]

Virgin :(
God dam it some1 make me loose it!!!
OI!

Losing your virginity doesn't change you nor do anything....so don't be in such a rush to lose it :p .

[trying2behappy]

I've cured many people infected with virginity :p

:icon_wink am I next? lol jk

I am such a virgin it's not even funny:icon_sad: I haven't even had my first kiss

[lolz]

I've cured many people infected with virginity :p

:icon_wink am I next? lol jk

I am such a virgin it's not even funny:icon_sad: I haven't even had my first kiss

i havnt either, and im 15 :)

Im gay and nobody knows.. i want it to stay that way for quite a while :) at least until im older and Im more comfortable with it.

[interstella]

I've cured many people infected with virginity :p

:icon_wink am I next? lol jk

I am such a virgin it's not even funny:icon_sad: I haven't even had my first kiss

same here :(

[MyStIcAl WoNdEr]

I'm 18 and still proudly wearing my V card

[Swamp56]

same here :(

Don't be sad about it :( . You're only 15...wait ;) .

[Thund3rz]

Im a virgin.

[IamAninja]

Im a virgin

[Absentminded]

Still a virgin.
Messed around with a girl, kissed a guy, but..just from that I know that I'm a ladie's sort of lady.

[SurferDude420]

I'm a virgin, never been in a relationship ever :( nor have I been truly kissed (a girl I had a big thing for this past summer tried to kiss me but I'm clueless and fucked it up) so yeah, most definitely a virgin :(

[Johnny123]

virgin and celibate.

But really needing some advice on the celibacy issue.

[missmelancholy]

I used to be a virgin. ;)

[sexybeast]

i'm a virgin

[StephenR]

Im a virgin, Didn't think id ever want to type that:roflmao:

[Johnny123]

virgin and celibate.


Hmmm.... I'm not either any more! :confused: Not sure if I've done the right thing, though.