Meeting Guys in High School

[Aawon]

So I'm a junior in high school and it's really hard for me to meet any guys that are gay or bi. I'm really looking forward to a boyfriend. I'm Bi and I'm open-ish, but I don't go around flaunting that I like guys.
It's not because I'm weird, or ugly or anything like that, atleast I hope not, But mainly cause I don't have any gay or bi friends so I don't meet anyone. All my friends are straight, and I'm never around any situations where I'm around anyone gay.
Also, being in high school, not a lot of people are out, and with those that are, I find it awkward to go talk to them because they're out of my circle of friends or my clique.

So what do I do? Do I resort to online dating? Even with that, you never really find anyone. Atleast not my age and living in the same area.

[Grof142007]

GO To a GSA meeting ( Gay Straight Alliance) if u have one

[CrimsonThunder]

Get out of your comfort zone and talk to one. :P Never know, you might click.

[Nicvcer]

Get out of your comfort zone and talk to one. :P Never know, you might click.

I agree here... I only knew of one gay guy in my high school the whole time I went there, and he was too flamboyant for me, on top of me being closeted. Go to the GSA meetings definitely! Otherwise I don't have much advice, its just something I didn't have luck with. I wish I had found this forum yeaaaaars ago!

[chrisbrgstrm]

Well theres always Myspace lol.....i mean look for the openly gay guys from your school your atracted to it should be easy enough to find there names send them a message starta convo on there maybe eventually you will have the courage to hang out with him to if you guys get along via messages then maybe phone.

[Kovax14]

look around and see if there are any gay teen community centers in your area, that could be a good place to meet people that live close by to you

[Gustav]

I am in the same boat as you. but I have been recently trying to leave my click and speak to other guys i don't know. i think that would be the best way.

[l0stinthsw0rld]

You guys are so lucky man at least you know some guys that are open at my school i dont know any other guys that are open! I wish i did cause thats what i really want and am missing!

[Alexander]

Just talk to people and eventually you'll find someone who's gay :D

[Gerry]

I agree. The more people you talk to the more likely you'll run into someone gay. Or else see if there is a GSA or a little group or something. That's the best I can give. Good luck with that. :)