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sapphicvariety
14th Feb 2008, 06:34 PM
Hey guys. I'm new to this site, so I figure I may as well make one of these.

I came out for the first time on January 14th, 2007, four days before my fifteenth birthday and four days after breaking up with my first (and last) boyfriend. It was to my two best friends, Becca and Melissa. They took it so well, they really did. Melissa especially, because she had (and still has) a sense of humor about it. Becca went weird for a while, and even actually said "I'm not comfortable with you being gay," but she eventually apologized and we're friends again.

This summer, in June, I came out to my parents. They took it spectacularly. I even had a girlfriend for a while, which was fantastic and felt so entirely right for the first time ever. We ceased to be an item in August though, much to my dismay.

In August, in an attempt to alleviate my sadness over the breakup, I focused my energies into making a youtube video about coming out. A day or so after it launched, it was showcased by Your Daily Lesbian Moment (yourdailylesbianmoment.blogspot.com), and it got me loads of subscribers (which was wicked freakin cool). My mom found out though, and despite the fact that she's super cool about me being gay (she's a frequent at the local PFLAG), she made me take it down. Lame.

But.... I re-uploaded it under a different username.
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Enjoy.

My normal youtube account is eatyourpeas18 (youtube.com/eatyourpeas18).

I'm totally out at school and I've received pretty much zero hate. Everyone's really cool about it, and we have a GSA. So have hope, people! Not every coming out story is a tragedy!!!

beckyg
14th Feb 2008, 06:41 PM
That was great! :)

Astaroth
14th Feb 2008, 06:53 PM
Hey there! Welcome to EC! (*hug*) So, I'm curious. Did someone here invite you to EC or did you find us on your own? The reason I'm curious is that your YouTube clip was on a thread two days ago here. Just curious. Anyway, welcome again! You're hilarious. :lol:

I'm glad you've had such a wonderful time coming out. Some people get it tough and some people don't. It's great to hear positive experiences, though. It gives me hope that this world is slowly progressing toward acceptance.

Pepsi
14th Feb 2008, 07:00 PM
Welcome, your video is hilarious :laugh:

sapphicvariety
14th Feb 2008, 07:09 PM
Hey there! Welcome to EC! (*hug*) So, I'm curious. Did someone here invite you to EC or did you find us on your own? The reason I'm curious is that your YouTube clip was on a thread two days ago here. Just curious. Anyway, welcome again! You're hilarious. :lol:

I'm glad you've had such a wonderful time coming out. Some people get it tough and some people don't. It's great to hear positive experiences, though. It gives me hope that this world is slowly progressing toward acceptance.

Someone sent me fanmail on youtube, and on their channel I saw a link to this site. I think his name is Brett?

Sexiican01
14th Feb 2008, 07:50 PM
you're video is awesome
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sdc91
14th Feb 2008, 07:59 PM
:icon_eek:

Oh my gosh, you joined EC?! That's awesome! Now we have a celebrity or something.

I watched your video twice after someone posted it in that one thread. It was so hilarious!

Ok, I'm off to puke some rainbows now.

ohioboy
14th Feb 2008, 08:18 PM
Omg I watched your video over and over made me almost pee myself soo funny....Welcome

Alexander
14th Feb 2008, 08:27 PM
LOL
I love it! Plus you have a good radio voice and you're cute which helps :D

Time
14th Feb 2008, 08:28 PM
Oh, I'm so glad you joined! Welcome to EC!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE that video! I wish I could have such a great sense of humor about it. That's definitely a good way to go about telling people in my opinion. It really doesn't have to be all droopy like a lot of people make it out to be.

Jard
14th Feb 2008, 09:59 PM
I've gotta agree with everyone else. It's a great vid. :p Welcome!

Lefty
15th Feb 2008, 12:15 AM
I hate to say whats already been said, but it cannot be said enough; awesome video! The confidence and humor you show in the video are so amazing

heatqueen
15th Feb 2008, 12:35 AM
OMG so you're the one who made that video!? Definitely welcome, it was hilarious!

pirateninja
15th Feb 2008, 06:30 AM
Wow, so it was you that made the video?

kcl91
15th Feb 2008, 07:38 AM
just to repeat everybody else --> wow.....i love your video!

wish I had the courage to do that!

Anyways......welcome to EC!

sngl
15th Feb 2008, 07:43 AM
Welcome to EC! I love your video and your sense of humor!

And I'm glad your coming out went so well! :thumbsup:

Bader
15th Feb 2008, 09:03 AM
OMG !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! your video is one my favorites !!!!
"someone asked me if i knew Ellen Degeneres " lol
i love you! iam really glad u joined EC !! YAY!

Psychedelic Bookmarks
15th Feb 2008, 09:44 AM
wow, your video really rocks :D welcome to empty closets. (*hug*) i'm helena :D

sapphicvariety
15th Feb 2008, 12:56 PM
ahaha wow. i was not expecting so many responses. muchos gracias to all of you guys, although now i'll have to work on not letting my ego swell :)

Rizpaz
15th Feb 2008, 03:18 PM
Welcome to EC! We all loved your video! Your sense of humor will bring us happy days.

acorn7
15th Feb 2008, 04:50 PM
Haha, that is so funny... it's really cool you joined.

Urman
15th Feb 2008, 09:38 PM
i love the video