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Do people think you're gay?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by vhrebels, Jul 6, 2013.

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  1. vhrebels

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    Hey. So, can people tell if you are gay? Other than the few people I've come out to, some of my other friends say that I kind of give off a "gay vibe". I have no idea what the hell that means, so I don't really see how they are picking up on stuff like that. Anyways, can people that you haven't personally come out to tell if you are a homosexual?
     
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    I have had like 15 or 16 people from school ask me if I am gay and the other night my dad asked me if I was gay. A lot of people will ask me like 6 or 7 times before they just give up on trying to get me to spit it out.
     
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    #3 Randy, Jul 6, 2013
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    Sadly I'm in the closet to everyone and people I don't even know ask me if I am gay so I guess strangers can but,how they could tell I Do not know Maybe I act gay with out knowing it.
     
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    Not at first, but apparently after I come out to them it's more obvious :lol:
     
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    If they don't guess off the bat i was born female. yes they assume that im a gay male lol being im trans and gay anyway lol
     
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    Why, of course. ; )

    In reality though, I have a very androgynous way about me in the way that I carry and express myself. Most people, at the very least, just don't assume I am straight.
     
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    nope am straight acting only one person had guessed i was .mum had her suspicions.
     
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    I was out to dinner with a few (gay/bi) co-workers once and asked if they thought I was gay when they first met me and they all answered DEFINITELY YES. But then when I came out to another co-worker she was clueless, so I guess it varies.
     
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    No one has asked me, but i do feel like a give a bit of a not straight vibe. I have a feeling when i inform my friends, the wont have uspected, but it will definetly make sense.
     
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    No. They all think I'm straightXD
     
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    my step brother didn't believe me when he asked me if it was true he was only 13 but he came with a bunch of questions .
    how do you know if you've never kissed a girl ?
    how come your different ?
    about a week later we had another chat saying he thinks he understands .
     
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    Nope.
     
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    It depends how much they get to know me. If we become good friends, they might wonder why I've never dated or speak of girls. Those might be some red flags. Other than that, I don't think I give particularly strong "gay vibes."
     
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    Nah. Most people assume me to be straight.
     
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