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Gender when you're dreaming?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Sarcastic Luck, Jul 10, 2013.

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What's your gender in dreams?

  1. Always male

    34 vote(s)
    40.5%

  2. Always female

    6 vote(s)
    7.1%

  3. Predominately male

    19 vote(s)
    22.6%

  4. Predominately female

    7 vote(s)
    8.3%

  5. Fifty-fifty

    6 vote(s)
    7.1%

  6. Neutral

    6 vote(s)
    7.1%

  7. Other

    6 vote(s)
    7.1%
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  1. Sarcastic Luck

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    I'm somewhat curious on what gender people are when they dream. For me, I bounce between male, female, and being 'me', but I don't know which is more predominant. I'm tempted to keep a sleep journal to track this for shits and giggles.

    Quick explanation on choices:

    Always male: self explanatory
    Always female: also self explanatory
    Predominantly male: Usually male, but occasionally female
    Predominately female: Usually female, but occasionally male.
    Fifty-Fifty: equally male and female.
    Neutral: There's no sense of gender.
    Other: Anything that doesn't fit with the above, i.e, what I wrote for myself.
     
    #1 Sarcastic Luck, Jul 10, 2013
  2. myheartincheck

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    I'm usually female in my dreams and sex dreams, but I always get these other dreams where I'm a man having sex with a lady. O_O
     
    #2 myheartincheck, Jul 10, 2013
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    I'd have to say neutral. They're always in first person, so I could be an alien, and I wouldn't know it! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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  4. Sarcastic Luck

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    Well, so are mine, but I usually have a sense of what gender I am.
     
    #4 Sarcastic Luck, Jul 10, 2013
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    I'm always female in my dreams
     
    #5 castle walls, Jul 10, 2013
  6. Jinkies

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    I have no clue.. I've never seen XD
     
    #6 Jinkies, Jul 10, 2013
  7. Zam

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    I have never dreamed of being a woman...
     
    #7 Zam, Jul 10, 2013
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    Normally neutral. But for.. spicy.. dreams I usually have a good sense of gender and it's around 60/40 male-female.

    You guys make me say the most embarrassing things :icon_redf
     
    #8 Batman, Jul 10, 2013
  9. drwinchester

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    Oddly enough, never seem to have a sense of gender. Just "me", I suppose. Lately I've been having more explicitly gendered dreams (mostly male, which is the gender I always seem to be in sex dreams.), so might have to do with trying to figure out my gender/deal with realizing I'm trans*...
     
    #9 drwinchester, Jul 10, 2013
  10. Foxface

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    predominantly male...I've only had a couple where I wasn't male

    Foxface
     
    #10 Foxface, Jul 10, 2013
  11. Steele

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    Pretty much always male. I have had dreams where I was female, but, well, I've only had two of them in my life. Once when I was 9 and once when I was a teenager (I don't remember the exact age).
     
    #11 Steele, Jul 10, 2013
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    Neutral/male for the most part since my dreams are pretty funky (especially with a lack of sleep), I am still me but I guess I never think about gender. But sometimes I am personified in a female form in more mature dreams sometimes, but it's more of myself kind of narrating it sort of.
     
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    I am always myself, a male, in dreams.
     
    #13 Tightrope, Jul 10, 2013
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    I wish I dreamed with a female body. I've only had ONE dream where I was female bodied and it actually was one of my earliest flags that said, "Whoa... That was... Nice." Since then I've never had another dream that I was a woman in... I wish I'd have more... :frowning2:
     
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    Romantically: Female
    Sexually: Male.

    I have no idea why. I wish I knew why i only have males in my sexual dreams. It makes me mad to be honest haha
     
    #15 MerBear, Jul 10, 2013
  16. Tetraquark

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    I'm usually female or neutral, but I have had one or two dreams in which I was male, as well as a few that were from a male perspective even though the "protagonist" wasn't me.
     
    #16 Tetraquark, Jul 10, 2013
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    It's weird, sometimes i imagine i'm a girl and i get pounded in my vagina and ass by guys everywhere.
    Than i feel like a guy and have consensual sex with a guy. I find this weird, even though i'm gay and have no impulse to cross dress.
     
    #17 FreeFlow9917, Jul 10, 2013
  18. George

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    I've always been male in my dreams, although come to think of it, I never really pay much attention to myself, I'm always preoccupied by the weird things going on around me in the dreams.
     
    #18 George, Jul 10, 2013
  19. Mohammad

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    I don't know about gender, but I once dreamed I was a big-ass snake that ate people alive. They tasted like golden syrup.

    That was a great dream.
     
    #19 Mohammad, Jul 10, 2013
  20. Oddish

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    Gender neutral, or something. Gender doesn't play much of a role in my dreams. I'm just myself, whatever that may be.
     
    #20 Oddish, Jul 10, 2013
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