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I Just Want Some Male Contact

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Bear101, Jul 11, 2013.

  1. Bear101

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    Hey guys,

    Thanks for listening to me here.

    I am an extremely tactile person. It's like currency or oxygen to me.

    And it's been SOOOOOOOO long since I've been hugged or touched by a guy. I'm not even talking sexually, but just felt an arm around my shoulders or a pat on the back saying "Good Job".

    I try to stimulate my tactile senses in other ways, but it just never happens.

    I don't sleep around, my town is too small to do that and I can't have it getting back to my wife.

    I just really needed to tell someone. Thanks for listening.
     
  2. Dublin Boy

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    I feel your pain Dude, when I go to the shop & the Cashier is Male, I love it when they touch my hand when they give me my change, especially if they are cute, I have to get Male contact when I can Lol Dublin seems along time away now :slight_smile:
    I guess that sounds so Sad :grin:
     
  3. srslywtf

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    I live for those moments.. since I get nothing more.

    Another suffering the isolation of sensation
     
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    oh my god i feel like such a pervert but i feel the exact same way. i hate feeling like this! stupid brain.
     
  5. Bear101

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    I realized what part of it is. Due to shoulder and lower back issues, I've been getting a therapeutic massage weekly from a guy for a couple of years. However, due to the financial issues surrounding the divorce, I've had to back these down to every 2-3 weeks. I'm thinking this may be part of the problem.
     
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    I understand exactly where you're at. I like to be physically affectionate with people, even friends, but there seems to be a problem with that. People put up a boundary around that. :/

    Ziester Adrian
     
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    Imagine hugging me, a big teddy-bear type man. There you go.
     
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    Now I definitely want a bear as my boyfriend :lol: Imagine all the hugs and cuddles you'd get...and give.
     
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    Hahaha, I too am desperate for male or female contact, always. This thread is depressing btw :frowning2: We're all forever alones haha.