No one probably cares about this, but I just wanted to say that I finally figured out the myriad inconsistencies with my sexuality. That darn gender element kept messing it up for me! I've determined that, while I was born biologically male, I'm like 40% male and 60% female. I don't identify as transgender or bigender because I honestly don't care all that much, and because let's be honest--transphobia and sexism are rampant. Besides, I'd be a pretty masculine girl. I don't like cosmetics or dresses. I just don't feel too comfortable having…uhh…"male anatomy" and I'd feel more comfortable with the female set, and I have always talked and thought in a way stereotypically assigned to women, I guess. Before, I was confused because I liked certain feminine characteristics and thought, "This doesn't make sense with my sexuality." But it's just because I wanted to have those characteristics, I guess. So I'll still be identifying as male, but this explained stuff for me. I guess if there's a purpose to this post (hint: there isn't), it's to help anyone who's like me.
Wow! Proud of you for figuring this out! Now hopefully everything will make more sense. I identify as female but I'm more genderqueer and could've comfortably been born female OR male and been much the same.
Call yourself what you will, I'm happy for you..! But I'm not sure about avoiding calling yourself something because transphobia/sexism exist... That sounds alot like not being true just because it makes other people's lives easier. If you want to call yourself male because thats what you consider yourself, that's fine..
Dude! That's awesome! I know how you feel. I'm biologically female but would rather be male, so I can really see where you're coming from. If I were actually biologically male, I'd be pretty girly, I think.
