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Old 5th May 2008, 03:27 AM   #1
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Default Proposer or or one who is proposed to?

Which would you rather be? Personally I'd like to be proposed to, but you never know ^_^



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Old 5th May 2008, 03:32 AM   #2
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I'm somewhat impatient and not that romantic so I would probably be the proposer rather than waiting for the other person to get around to it!
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Old 5th May 2008, 03:36 AM   #3
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With my shyness even it it should ever happen i dont think i could pull myself together to do it :/
though i just asked a guy on MSN i met at the airport if he was gay! he was not though :'(
and it took like 10 yells from a friend to make me send the message lol
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Old 5th May 2008, 03:42 AM   #4
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I'd probably be the one who proposes
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Old 5th May 2008, 03:51 AM   #5
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I think I'd like to be the one proposing, because I think it would mighty exciting and glorious to plan it all out and have be able to express your feelings to the other dude. That said, I would love to be proposed to, because (honestly) who wouldn't want someone to ask you to spend the rest of their life with you?
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Old 5th May 2008, 05:44 AM   #6
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Neither, I don't want to get married... But won't it be awkward if anyone ever does propose?
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I could be either one *Sigh* Cant wait till either or happen
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Old 5th May 2008, 07:08 AM   #8
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Proposer most likely. I don't know why, but I always like the idea of being the more forward person
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Old 5th May 2008, 08:32 AM   #9
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I'd love to be proposed to. Especially by the hot guy in your pic, ty lol
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Proposer.
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id want to be proposed to, lol im too shy to be the proposer
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I would most likely be the one that proposes to someone, just because I'm fairly straight forward, and I would love to plan it. It would be fabulous. <3 But I'd love for it to be the other way around too, because I like to think that the person I'm with would put as much thought into the proposal as I would.
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I'd be too nervous to propose. I fear rejection and I'd be really heartbroken if he said no...

Plus, if I'm being proposed to, I'd feel so special because I'd know that the other person is willing to spend the rest of his life with me... so yeah.

I'd be the one getting proposed to.
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Although it will never happen =P I'm way too shy to propose to someone I'd wait for them to do it.
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hmmm...i dunno, i could be either. probably be the one proposed to
id have to be really sure about my love for them and theirs for me before i proposed.
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Old 5th May 2008, 03:01 PM   #17
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Doesn't matter for me. I'd probably do a double proposal with my fiancé (one proposes, then the other one proposes later/right after).
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I would propose but being proposed would be the sweetest most romantic thing
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I would probably be the one proposing, just because I would like to plan it all out and do something extremely elaborate and my style . But, I don't think I would mind if the other person beats me to it.
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I'm shy as hell, but I'd be the proposer. It would probably take me about 2 weeks to work up the courage to do it and about a year to think about it lol.
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