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Have you ever taken a nudie shot on your cellphone for your significant other?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Beware Of You, Jul 19, 2013.

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Ever taken a nudie of youself for your other?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Beware Of You

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    Just want to prove a point, have you ever taken a shot of yourself naked for your other half?

    I admit to it..
     
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    I have no sig other
     
  3. Hexagon

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    I have no SO. I never have.
     
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    Sorry, can't say that I have.
     
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    I was tempted to in the past to try and overcome my asexual difficulties/appease my partner. I just couldn't go through with it. I'm lucky I didn't. :slight_smile:
     
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    Not yet, let's get a significant other first :slight_smile:
     
  8. BudderMC

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    Nope. No SO, but it's one of those things I don't see the point in doing either tbh. Either see the person in person or use your imagination if you're distant, IMO :wink:
     
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    I think this thread has so few replies because people don't want to admit it. It's so easy to say "it's so wrong...I'd never do it." Yeah, true...and our president is white and the sun is green.

    I've done it. It's common. I don't see what's the big deal. For some of us, it was the only sexual connection we had. I applaud some of you for having no hormones or being better than the rest of us, but this stuff happens.
     
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    I don't think it's strictly an issue of hormones or being "better" than others; people have different personal values/morals when it comes to this sort of thing. Some people refuse to do it. Some people think it's wrong. Some people have absolutely no issues with it. To each his own.

    For me personally, I know the risks about being unable to retrieve any media you send out to the world and have heard enough horror stories that no amount of horniness will make me send one. I'm pretty sure my self-consciousness would also prevent me from taking one in the first place, to be honest.
     
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    I've done this so many times! I've even got some back. :wink:
     
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    .... I did a few times to make my ex happy.... I feel really dirty about it... I mean not that I think it's wrong I just wish I wouldn't give in to people so much... I didn't really want to and I feel really dirty about the whole thing... :tears:
     
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    I agree with Mr. Budder 100%. I myself haven't and wouldn't. My boyfriend and I actually talked about it, and we've decided to wait till we're together in person. We both don't feel comfortable doing that.
     
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    I agree. Not to mention there are people who don't really want to, but feel obligated to by the other person asking them and making them feel bad about not doing it. I can't be the only person that that's happened to.
     
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    Yep, but with a digital camera, and not a phone.
     
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    Haven't, wouldn't.
     
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    Awww it's ok, honey. It's not your fault. You shouldn't have been pressured to do that. (*hug*)

    I took some pics but never ended up sending them. I didn't delete them soon enough because then the next day a guy at school got hold of my phone, went through my pics (without consent) and told me he could get me in trouble for child pornography. I felt so violated... again. :frowning2:
     
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    I have to call you out on being a bit judgmental there. Many people have many different reasons for doing, or not doing, a thing. They also have reasons for deciding whether or not to post to a particular thread. Just because something's within your scope of interesting or normal does not make it so for everyone.

    Personally, I answered the poll with a, "no." I'm fully aware that anything you send out through texting or email is going to stick around on every server that it meets between me and the recipient. If I want to show my bits to someone, it'll be in person.
     
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    I haven't and wouldn't.

    However, I wouldn't judge someone who would. As long as they aren't doing a full body+face nude I have never seen a probably with it. My reason for never doing it is no different than my reason for not having sex on the first date.

    What fun is there if there isn't a bit of mystery and build up? ; )

    Edit: Also, I wanted to add that I think we could ease up a bit on photoguy93. I think he was just a bit annoyed with the people that do truthfully tend to get a bit uppity on the subject. Poorly vocalized, I'll admit, but we do not need every new poster in this thread to point out their disagreeance with him.
     
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  20. Chip

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    I've been around long enough to see a real shift in attitudes about this, particularly in people under 25.

    Media is increasingly showing full male and female nudity in mainstream films, and there are some edgy independent films that show erections and ejaculation in context (they aren't porn films, but the directors are intentionally being edgy.)

    And porn is getting very mainstream to the point where nearly everyone admits to watching it, the models that perform in it are having some success crossing over into modeling things like underwear and sunglasses and such.

    So, among the younger generation, nudity, sex, and sexual expression is losing the shame and stigma it used to have associated with it, and a lot of young people are simply very comfortable with nudity and sex, and don't mind putting it out there.

    This is good and bad. Anything that decreases shame is a good thing. But I also think there's a value to making sex, and sexual expression, special. When we lose the specialness, then we lose a lot of the energy and emotion and excitement that should come along with sex, and it becomes simply a form of pleasant stimulation that results in orgasm, and orgasms themselves become ho-hum because there's no real emotion or excitement behind them.

    I suspect that if current trends continue, there'll be almost no stigma in 10 or 15 years about having nude pics, masturbation videos, or whatever else floating around. But we can't be sure that's the case, and for the moment, we also have to consider the impact it will have on our families, friends, loved ones, partners, etc. And, at least for the moment, there are some careers in which having nude pics floating around would almost certainly be problematic.

    It isn't necessarily evil or horrible to share nude pics, but I do think that most of the people doing so haven't really sat and thought about the consequences. I think that if they did, many people would probably choose not to.