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First Relationship

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by person57, Jul 20, 2013.

  1. person57

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    Hey guys, how old were you when you had your first relationship? How long did it last? Was your first relationship with a boy or girl? I was 11, my relationship lasted 8 months, and it was with a girl. I'll never forget her, she moved away and we currently have no way to contact each other, she moved to a place where there's no phone service or internet which sucks :'( but I'm happy now, we both moved on in our lives, though I'll always remember her.
     
  2. Unsurevirgin

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    18,with a boy it last for 6 or 5 months ,broke up I can't remember when . I can't move on yet
     
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  3. drwinchester

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    I was sixteen. Dated my then best friend for almost two years. We're still friends- they were the person I first came out as trans* too, vice versa when they came out as genderqueer.
     
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    17, two weeks.
     
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    Does a crush count? I had mine a year from now, it stopped a week bacl.
     
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    I was probably 12 when I had my first relationship. I met the guy in a chatroom and we did webcam dates as often as we could. We dissolved about a few months later when he just vanished. I'm not sure how he'd react to seeing me now if we ever spoke again since I'm not the same person he met back then. Well, it would be an interesting conversation topic I'll say that much.
     
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    Am in it. I was 17 when we met last year, he is two years older.
    And he´s a guy.
    Never even kised anyone before.
     
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    I was 17 when I had my first "relationship". I say "relationship" because it was a lot more like going on mild dates for two weeks. We only kissed about 6 times total in those two weeks, which is weird, because we always kissed/touched each other before we actually dating, and then as soon as I asked her out, she became very busy. We only went on about three dates. She was also the one who asked me on the initial date, which is curious because...

    She ended up being straight and left me for my guy friend. I still love her as a friend, but I'm still somewhat bitter at her.
     
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    I was nineteen, it lasted a month and a half, and was with a boy. Certainly learned my lesson there :slight_smile:
     
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    I was 18 he was 19 it lasted for 4 months.
     
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    12 and it lasted 6 months
     
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    One with a girl in seventh grade, never was into it as i never texted her on a daily basis, i did kiss her though, it was ok but it only made me kinda excited, not really excited. We lived an hour to two hours away. Lasted a couple months.

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    Forever alone :frowning2:
     
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    This sounds like a bandwagon I can jump on!
     
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    I was 15 when I got my first girlfriend and 21 when I got my first boyfriend.... the relationship when I was 15 was much less dysfunctional. LOL
     
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    I was 19. He was 24. It lasted about two years. I left him because I felt I had grown in those two years and he hadn't. We completely lost touch after a few years. Every now and then, I wonder what ever became of him.
     
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    never had one, because i was confused up until a few months ago, and i still wasn't entirely comfortable with it until VERY recently. when school starts though, i plan on actually trying, now that i'm comfortable with myself.
     
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    I was 13 and I dated a boy that lived in my neighborhood on and off for 2 years actually, haha. I was still in denial back then. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: He broke up with me for another girl that was more into the things he was into (drugs, stealing, etc.) Glad I got away from him for several reasons, haha.

    Recently found out he was arrested for car theft. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Hasn't happened yet hahaha :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Mine was when I was fourteen with my friend Matt. He was the one who basically helped me discover my homosexuality. We lasted six months. Now we're friends with benefits.