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| View Poll Results: Would you date someone who was a dick to your friends? | |||
| Yes | | 12 | 13.04% |
| No | | 80 | 86.96% |
| Voters: 92. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Yes or No? |
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| The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,366 Join Date: Dec 2007 | I would like to think my boyfriend would respect me enough to respect my friends, as well. I do have a friend who my partner really doesn't like, but he's always at least civil to him. I just don't bring the partner along when I do stuff with the friend. ![]() Lex |
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| Psycho Glitter B*tch Full Member ![]() Gender: Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,379 Join Date: Mar 2008 | No, if they can't accept my friends, I won't accept them as a friend, which I feel you need to be before you can date someone. I used to think otherwise, until My best friend in high school (was a girl, she's bi) was dating a guy who was bisexual, and his parents didn't like the "influence" our group had on him (we were all bi/gay/lesbian) so they told him to stop hanging out with us, and my friend told him it was us or his parents, and he chose his parents... So yea, that altered my views.
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| Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 21 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007 | Bros before hos. Or bros, too, in this case, I guess. :/
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| Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008 | I definately wouldnt date someone who was mean to my friends. if they dont get along with some of them, thats fine, but if theyre mean I would be like mmkaayy, no. lol!
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| Guest Posts: n/a | No way, my friends are important to me and they'll always be there if things don't work out with the person I date ![]() Last edited by Starlight; 6th May 2008 at 12:59 PM.. |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Depends on the circumstances really. A lot of my friends are a lot less than perfect and some have quite unlikeable qualities so in some respects in wouldn't surprise me if other people I met didn't like them. Depending on how many friends you have it could be unlikely a parter will like all your friends... I suppose it's about how close the friends in question are and how many. Depends what you mean by acting like a 'dick' too. I don't like people being rude or horrible to people in general really. |
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| R-Y-R-Y Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out Location: Staten Island, NYC Age: 20 Posts: 4,348 Join Date: Jan 2008 | No, I'm very loyal to the little amount of friends I do have, and I wouldn't date someone who was mean to them.
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| EC Addict Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: tiny tiny University in northern Maryland Age: 23 Posts: 503 Join Date: Apr 2008 | Not at all... I love my friends (although everybody goes to different schools now ) I don't think I'd be able to stand someone who didn't like my friends because we have a very diverse group... and it's literally impossible to not love them
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| Heterodox Homosexual Full Member ![]() Gender: (.)(.) Orientation: Kinsey 5? Ish? Out Status: If you don't know, where have you been all my life Location: Midwest USA Age: 17 Posts: 1,719 Join Date: Mar 2008 | I said no, because I wouldn't now. I have, in the past, dated someone who has always been a dick to my friends. Of course, he's been a dick to me too....The asshole. (got a little carried away there...) ~megan~
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| Guest Posts: n/a | "Les ennemis de mes amis sont mes ennemis" I would never date a guy who's been an ass to my friend. |
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| Wreck Cognition Full Member ![]() Gender: Heterogametic Orientation: Rawr. Out Status: 99% out. Location: Middlesbrough Age: 23 Posts: 1,744 Join Date: Aug 2007 | It depends on the situation, really. And how cute he is. ![]()
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| Is mise Daibhidh Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Almost out to everyone Location: Scotland Age: 25 Posts: 434 Join Date: Sep 2007 | Definitely not. It depends on if he's being a complete dick or not, if he just doesn't get on with my friends I'd try to sort it out If he's a dick to anyone, whether they're my friend or not, I will not tolerate it. I hate bitching and rudeness |
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| Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,859 Join Date: Jul 2007 | Win. Anyways, I am really close with my friends, and I'd much rather choose them than any single man. Besides, if he's a dick to my friends, he's probably not a very nice guy.
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| Well Known Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Best Friends+Parents Location: North of San Diego, California Age: 21 Posts: 142 Join Date: May 2008 | Someone who cant respect my firends in a way isnt respecting me, if he cant like me with my friends then I cant like him
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Totally out, except for extended family Location: Minnesota Age: 20 Posts: 314 Join Date: Dec 2007 | A similar plot line happened on The Golden Girls.. Except Dorothy was just friends with this person. Anyway, after realizing the mistake- no. |
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| sine qua non Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 3,332 Join Date: Apr 2005 | Nope, not in a million years. |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Hell no, I'd probably end up bitching him/her out myself |
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| Well Known Regular Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Still trying to find out... Bi or gay which.. Out Status: Mom, siblings and a few close friends Age: 27 Posts: 140 Join Date: Apr 2008 | If their rude to my friends then their rude to me. My friends are part of my life if they can't accept it then I'll choose to move on.
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| I Got Your Display of Affection Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I Kiss Men With Lust Out Status: I'm Afraid If I Tell You I Have to Kill You Location: jakarta, indonesia Age: 21 Posts: 829 Join Date: Sep 2007 | depends. what if its my friends that is such a dick to my bf? i need to see the situation in two points of view. besides having a person as a friend, doesnt mean that he/she is not a dick. been there done that. but i wouldnt bring this hating-each-other to the topic with either two. so, yeah, i voted for yes........ .......... .......... omg, this doesnt make me a bad person, right?
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