Any bi guys out there? (Open to anyone)

I think that I may be bisexual.

 

There are plenty of bi people on here. Is it rarer than regular old gayness? Impossible to say, but I feel pretty rare.

 

Hia! There a a few guys here who are bi, I think we are rarer than gay men. If you feel like talking just post on my wall

 

I be a bi guy...and hello!

Foxface

 

I'm not bi, but I would imagine bisexuals stay closeted a lot more than homosexuals because they can be reasonably satisfied sexually without coming out. I'm not saying this is a good thing, but that would be my suspicion.

 

<Raises hand> Another bi' guy here. Welcome to EC.

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The problem with that is when you crave a penis and a vagina just won't do. Then too you may fall in love and want a LTR with your man. That's much easier out of the closet.

 

Could be that it's more rare, but everyone knows rare steak is more delicious :icon_wink

But seriously, there's lots of bi guys on here that are willing to talk any time you need (psst! I'm one of them).

 

Oh yes, bisexual men definitely exist. Unfortunately, many gay men early in their coming out process identify as such, as the most vocal group, only adding to the popular idea that men are either "gay, straight, or lying".

I suspect bisexual attractions are a lot more common in the straight and gay populations than many men feel comfortable admitting! Until that changes, the bisexual man will continue to fly under the radars.

It fluctuates. While I can be turned on by men and women, I feel the emotional/romantic attraction towards men is stronger, and ultimately see myself with one, down the road. I've enjoyed my relationships with women, and wouldn't say "never again", but at the moment... I'm embracing my queer side.

 

Another bi guy here! Feel free to message/Add me as a friend.

 

Bi guy! Ooh yeah!

 

Hello, Cali Guy. I'd definitely say that I'm in a similar boat. I would consider myself more on the straight side.

 

I'm bi/pan. Mostly, people assume that I'm gay in denial, which isn't the case. Most of the 'bi' guys I've met are gay, and freely admit it in queer circles.

 

Maybe. Not identified yet...

 

I'm pretty sure I'm bi. I used to be about Kinsey 2 (2 or 3 years ago) but now I'm about Kinsey 5. I'm always open to talk to anyways

 

Well when you mention a specific group we all sort of jump out from the woodworks. But as for your question there. It fluctuate for me more often than not. Even down to what I fantasize and/or watch porn about. But I do tend to have a stronger sexual attraction towards men, but at the same time I have a stronger romantic attraction towards women. I can see myself being in a long relationship with a woman (Like 20 years +) but I always feel that if I were to ever get into a full fledged relationship with a man, the sex would be the only thing that would keep the desire between us alive. And I want someone who is willing to love me for me.

Feel free to talk to me or any of the other Bisexuals on the forums. Just post on my or their walls.

 

I'm bi and the attractions are different. With women it's kind of a traditional physical and emotional connection and with men it is primarily physical. I'm not sure how or if that will change as I get older.

 

Pretty much. Although like I stated, I tend to have a stronger romantic attraction to women rather than just physical.