1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

What do you constitute as rude?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ScatteredEarth, Jul 28, 2013.

  1. ScatteredEarth

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 7, 2013
    Messages:
    1,486
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bethlehem, Pennsylvania
    What do people do that makes you think they are rude?

    [YOUTUBE]rq9Xvk4R6G0[/YOUTUBE]

    Video related
     
  2. Abbra

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2013
    Messages:
    459
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Idaho
    Pretty much any time you do or say something without considering the feelings of other people. However, rudeness in unintentional. Being an ass is being intentionally rude.

    The rudest thing I can think of are back handed compliments. Like, this one girl told me that I could be pretty one time.
     
  3. unknown17050

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    May 13, 2013
    Messages:
    464
    Likes Received:
    0
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    I am not easily offended but when I was a kid, I used to hate being called weak.
     
  4. leer

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 8, 2012
    Messages:
    1,785
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    grt Manchester
    people who think they are better than you .
    impatient people .
     
  5. ScatteredEarth

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 7, 2013
    Messages:
    1,486
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Bethlehem, Pennsylvania
    I think patronizing is rude. Unless it's welcomed beforehand.
     
  6. Hexagon

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 1, 2011
    Messages:
    8,558
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Earth
    I don't know. I don't really have a concept of rudeness. Just a I like you/I don't like you switch.
     
  7. justjade

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2013
    Messages:
    395
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    North Canton, Ohio, US
    I think it's rude when someone just outright does something with the purpose of offending someone. Of course, that's when someone's meaning to be rude.

    I think it's rude when someone is just generally inconsiderate.
     
  8. People with an inferiority complex. They're pretty rude.
     
  9. Dublin Boy

    Dublin Boy Guest

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2013
    Messages:
    1,738
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    UK
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    People who don't acknowledge Good Manners :eusa_naug
     
  10. Hrantou

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2013
    Messages:
    1,107
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    California
    If I tell you a genuine comment about you and you quick respond to me like I'm lying and it's not true. Just say "Thank you" :icon_sad:
     
  11. BreannaToBrian

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 23, 2013
    Messages:
    110
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Southern states of North America (ugh.)
    Sarcasm....well, maybe it's not rude but something about it irritates the CRAP out of me. Gah, I HATE sarcasm.
     
  12. Idek1204

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2013
    Messages:
    142
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    England
    Mate I gotta start watching 30 rock that's hilarious and I keep seeing ads for it.


    NOT REPLY TO MY FUCKING TEXTS!
    (okay my phone is off and I'm drunk to deal with this shit but still! fukcing annoying!)
     
  13. iHateThinking

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jul 19, 2013
    Messages:
    422
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    U.S.A.
    Not sure if these constitute as "rudeness" as more so things I just dislike, but yeah:

    I loathe it when people are a complete jerk to you, but the minute you even remotely criticize them or make a simple observation about them they get their undies in a bunch, or they brush off their very spiteful comments as a "joke" to cover their behinds. I think that's pretty darn rude, at least be mature enough own up to what you said.

    Not having decent manners, even simple as saying "please" and "thank you". I'd at least hope you did not grow up with wolves.

    People with vast, really unnecessary superiority-complexes. Great, you can do a few things without totally failing and mucking up. Please demonstrate to me the other 9000 things you claim to be good at, such as x, y, z activities, being great at a, b, and c, things, and how totally AWESOME you are and how you are so much cooler than everyone else.

    Relating to the one above, when you are explaining things that you enjoy doing (for me, it's art) to someone and then a person who has nothing to do with the conversation butts in and tries to say how much better they are at that activity when they really aren't. In essence, stealing your thunder without justification. (This has happened to me before, I had been giving a friend of mine advice on how to draw portraits and then another mutual friend butted in and said "Yeah, I can do portraits." But did not give any advice to the friend on how to draw them nor demonstrate his ability in that area).

    And probably many other things that people do. :dry: I'm pretty sure there are things I do that some would consider rude. But that's life.
     
  14. clockworkfox

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jun 21, 2013
    Messages:
    1,318
    Likes Received:
    60
    Location:
    Pennsylvania
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Talking on the phone while at the counter/register. I find this incredibly rude. I'm not a machine. Either finish your phone call before coming up to the counter, or hang up and get back to whoever you're talking to later. Hell, even ask them to hold on for a minute, and put the phone down. Just don't keep talking on it.
     
  15. FreeFlow9917

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 29, 2013
    Messages:
    608
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Illinois
    People that don't have manners, and think they're better than everyone else and think their the fucking king of the world
     
  16. KrisBrooks

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jan 21, 2012
    Messages:
    68
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Florida
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Never cut me off when I'm talking. Omg, I will freak out!