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  1. MerBear

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    Okay, so i think, everyone has their own style of flirting. Like, not everyone flirts the same way, at least I don't think,

    My style of flirting is to be Cute. Like last night, I was telling this girl i like, tiffany that she's a baby fox and that I own her and we would talk about cuddling and I said i would nudge her a lot.

    It's a weird way that i flirt, I know but it works. She thinks it's cute and likes it so.

    what's your style of flirting?
     
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    I've only ever jokily flirted, so I don't know if I can give a good opinion here! But I imagine that my style would be talking quietly, laughing a lot at the guy's jokes, making subtle comments about him, brushing against his arm etc. I've also been told that imitating their actions and body language works well if you're not too obvious, so that would be worth a try!
     
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  3. MerBear

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    Yeah, I mean..Maybe, I'm the only one who has this weird flirting method hahaa
    But that's a good one :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't know how to flirt. I just am my confused self and somehow people usually like me anyway. :slight_smile:
     
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    I think, there is no "how to" but its just what do you do to get someones attention or what you to do to show them your interested. I think, it can come naturally.

    i like my style because it's not obvious and Most girls fall for it and Like it. hahaha.
     
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    I suck at flirting. Oh, no! I don't even know how it works or the mechanics to perform it. That's why i'm still single at the age of 21.
     
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    Hey, You'll find someone i'm sure, half of the girls I meet think i'm weird as fuck. I'm 17 and i still haven't had a girlfriend so I'm almost there haha :slight_smile:
     
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    I, too, suck at flirting.... and strangely enough that's what tends to work for me. I'm rather shy and what not, but if I really like the person, I usually tell them or just flirt (in what I think is a subtle manner) and have been told that my thinking that I'm being subtle when I'm really not is what they like.... go figure.
     
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    I don't have the slightest idea on how to flirt!
    I have a strong feeling that I would turn out sounding like a murderer if I ever tried it. >.<

    Huh, I think I just now found out why i'm hopeless at future dating attempts. o_o
     
    #9 RocketMoose27, Jul 31, 2013
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    I have no idea how to flirt. Or how to tell if someone is flirting. It is all oblivious to me. :confused:
     
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    hmm, Interesting. ..
     
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    It's easy you know, you're flirting if you're trying to attract someone, but without serious intentions...flirting makes you feel good specially when someone's flirting back.
     
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    that I do agree with. it makes me feel good
     
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    Hey there cutie, how is your day going. I love flirting with my guy. It makes him and me feel good. :kiss:
     
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    Depends on the day :slight_smile: hehe
    Some days I'm the girl that laughs at the jokes (not in an annoying amount...just in enough of a way that the other person knows I'm enjoying spending time with them) and there's other days that I'm feeling confident so I just put it out there and throw "hey...you're sexy" out there :slight_smile: heh. Either way...as long as I'm feeling the route I go...I almost never lose :wink:
    Jeez...I promise I'm not as cocky as I sound.
     
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    hahaha, don't worry. I don't think you sound cocky. I am sometimes cocky about my smile because every girl mentions it...haha.

    i usually am only confident if the girl gives me reassurance
     
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    Awww :] that's sweet! I think we all love the reassurance :slight_smile: and that's the best kind of flirting...making someone's day. And if you get something out of it...well then hell yea!
     
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    haha. and yeah, I need it which is good because she definitely gives me plenty of it.
    and your right! :grin:
     
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    Can anyone teach me? I'm socially awkward. :help:
     
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    I too, want to learn the ancient ways known as "Flirting". :bang:
     
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