So do any of u feel regret when u lose ur virginty?

If someone does feel shame after losing their virginity, that'd be a shame. The concept of virginity can be a harmful one, and it's related to the shame that surrounds sex in general. With that said, it may be helpful to opt not for such a concept, and instead say you're inexperienced instead of a virgin. Virginity can have grey areas. But... that's just a thought I had.

To answer your question... It hasn't happened for me, but I'd like to think it'd just be a nice experience with a person I care about greatly and vice versa.

 

Virginity still confuses me, I have done other things with Guys, but never Anal, some people would say I have lost my Virginity & some would say I haven't, so confusing

 

I definitely regret it.

I was young and naive and felt absolutely no attraction - romantic or sexual - towards him. It (the sexual act) didn't last long and was just a massive mistake and complete waste of time. He was selfish because he left satisfied and I was left to "get myself there" - I didn't bother because I was disgusted by his selfishness. If I'd known then what I know now, I would've waited just a few more years and would've saved myself for someone I loved:dry:

 

I am not so fussed about who I lost my virginity to but I do regret sleeping with a guy because I felt I needed to do it in order to test my sexuality and prove that I was gay and to try and fit in, because it was part of me trying to denie my sexuality and I wish I had just come out at 17 and been able to be myself and lost it with a girl

 

Actually no, because the first guy to get up my back door was my boyfriend at the time who I once had feelings for. I was only 15 at the time, and it was also my first time being intimate with someone as well.

 

Not at all, though it did feel like I was rushing myself to lose the v-card at the time. We were both in our early twenties, and she was a lot more sexually experienced than I was, making things slightly less awkward. It wasn't terrible, obviously, since I kept going back for more, even after we had broke up.

She might have been turned off by my strap-on kinks.

 

The concept of virginity is stupid. I don't care whether the first time I have sex is with a person I'm romantically involved with, or a one night stand. It just doesn't mean that much to me.

 

I'm the exact same. I like to go with I havent yet. I've just fooled around.