I've not really been there! If a guy's straight then yeah, I can recognise if he's hot (many of my straight friends are), but if he's straight then he's completely unattainable and so I simply won't 'let' myself have a crush on him. If that makes sense.
No, if there's someone I know isn't attracted to me and never will be, I won't even entertain those thoughts. It's like I lose all potential interest in them and place them in another category, automatically. Friendzoned, basically.
nope never fancied a straight guy if I did there wouldn't be a problem lol but ii have had feelings for straight girls, I think it was before I was ready to have a relationship with a girl like I wanted what I couldn't have because I knew it never end in a relationship when I couldn't accept myself , since than nah I mean I think straight girls are good look Im not blind but that it
Yup. Right now.. It's even worse because he's a good friend. Actually wait what am I saying, IT'S AWESOME! You don't usually invite romantic intrests over to your house to spend the night at the age of 13 do you? Well when they're your friend and there are other guys there its cool!
Yup. Was there once. Wasnt very fun These days if they're straight I put them on the "Don't even think about it" list in my brain.
There are lots of guys, even good looking ones, that I immediately realize are not interested and so I lose any romantic interest (save any physical attraction). The guys that really get me infatuated are the ones who either unknowingly act coy/flirtatious, possibly because they are so confident in their own masculinity, or guys who are so friendly and even give me compliments, more than what I'm used to. Example (note he doesn't know I'm gay): I was working with a summer intern who is already married (Mormons marry really young!) and very masculine yet quiet. We never talked for the first month or so until I caught the same train with him and had a nice conversation. He is athletic and really into rugby, and I could tell he wasn't interested in me in "that way" (there was a rugby game that he couldn't take his eyes off of while were walking). We soon became friends, and he has a big heart and is very polite to others. Recently, I started having a small crush on him because we started having long conversations (usually pep talks to each other when our experiments weren't going as planned) and he was genuinely interested in what I'm doing (most of my fellow lab members like to keep to themselves). But, I know deep down that he is just a friendly straight guy, which makes me a little sad.
Yup. Been there. And I suppose I have an advantage at the present moment were I to like a straight guy...
Been there a couple of times. It's best to just keep it locked up seeing as there's like a 3% chance he may actually be gay/bi..
I'm pretty much permanently there. I haven't crushed on any of the gay guys I know. I am either only attracted to straight guys, or all the good looking ones are straight where I live.
Yeah I prefer straight guys too, it's the worst. And all the gay guys who have been available to me... let me just say that there's a reason they're single.
