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What is your ideal first date?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by altcipher, Aug 1, 2013.

  1. altcipher

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    This is kind of a cliche topic, but what would an ideal first date be for you? Where would you go? What would you do? etc. Keep it relatively clean though. :***:
     
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    Idk, where i'd go but it'd have to be a candlelit dinner with some barry manalow in the back serenading us softly as we look into each others eyes and annoy each other with interests and dreams, and than afterwards, we text and call each other until our phones die, unless it's a landline, i don't kiss till the third date. Then i sleep with a teddy bear and imagine it's my partner
     
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    Mine would be an all day affair. A day out at the mall and park... Movie at home, cooking and dinner at home... And then video games and a sleepover.
     
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    Sounds ideal to me too! Just a nice, long day, without interruptions.
     
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    I'm not sure, I'm pretty easy going and I think I would be comfortable with just hanging out. Bowling or something equally cheesy would be pretty awesome though :grin:
     
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    Probably a day of watching movies while cuddling on my couch. Then maybe dinner and a movie.
     
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    Italian Ice or the like. Nothing too complicated but...I feel it's just right.
     
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    The one that actually happens...
     
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    ^^ this one. (*hug*)
     
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    This so much (*hug*)

    If I ever get the choice though, it'd be something that we both enjoy. Video games, or watching a favorite show, having dinner. Things like that.
     
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    My ideal first date would be seeing a play (local playhouse not Broadway) and then going out for coffee afterwards. I guess dinner would work too but I'd prefer coffee. I like my first dates to be simple with a focus on getting to know each other better
     
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    I'm glad you agree :wink:

    But then I realized this is for first dates, not 20th dates. So I change my answer. It'd just be a lot of talking, I'd think. Maybe making some food together, 'cause that's always fun. Not too long but not too short, either.
     
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    ^This... is perfect^

    But, an ideal date is not something that I have gotten down to a science, like the venue or anything else.
    I would like to go somewhere where we can be social with each other, in a movie you can't talk to eachother, which is something Id like to do on a first date. Like say, a carnival, theme park, out to eat, bowling, anything where we can talk to each other. And if we do that plus a movie, well, we got to talk, so I wouldn't mind.
     
  14. Grab lunch at some cool cafe and get to talk. Then, walk along the beach holding hands as the sun sets. Sounds cheesy, I know, but I think it would be great.
     
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    Sadly, me four! :tears:

    But in the case that I do go on a date: I would love to go to a rodeo, cook something nice, watch a movie, or do some other fun/crazy thing.
     
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    I think an early dinner, nice conversation, then bowling, or a ballgame, or movie or something, then more conversation over coffee at Starbucks.
     
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    My ideal first date is somehow finding a way to skip right to the 2nd date. I hate the awkwardness on a first date.
     
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    Walking around town, going into places... Maybe a mall actually? Getting either Coffee or Ice Cream and pizza and just talking about ourselves, our interests, etc etc. while joking & flirting :3

    Kiss at the end ^_^ (just a peck)
     
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    Yeah, this...

    A kiss and a cuddle seems nice. Then we go wherever the night takes us.
     
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    Yeah, that sums it up. :dry: I'd like a quiet, uninterrupted date, and innocent. If I could watch Disney movies while snuggling up to a guy I like, then that date would be the best ever! :lol: