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I really need help!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by kesmi, Aug 3, 2013.

  1. kesmi

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    So, I'm gay and I'm only out to one friend, but I don't want to keep living inside the closet, I just wanna be me and be happy, but I am so afraid my straight friends, the boys, stop being my friends, or that our friendship changes.
    But my problem is that now, a gay boy that I Always thought was so cute and I Always wanted to kiss him, he wants to kiss me now, and I don't know what I do, because I want that so much, but if I do that, everybody will know!
    So, should I kiss him or not??
     
  2. Argentwing

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    Umm, kiss him back? Unless you think you're in serious danger of physical harm or anything else that would gravely wreck your life by coming out, it's a good idea. Friends lost over gayness were not worth having if they make you hide your full self.

    Sounds to me like you're pretty lucky to have a mutual crush :grin: But even more good luck in handling it!
     
  3. Hexagon

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    Kiss him.
     
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    The heart wants what the heart wants. So...kiss him!
     
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    Do what feels right for you. You can choose the easiest way, but then you will regret that you didn`t do anything with that and you`ll always wonder "what if..?" just like me. How old are you? You shouldn`t care about what other people think.
     
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    You will barely remember your friends names 10 years from now... but you will remember that kiss
     
  7. Wells

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    Go for it! Make it clear to him that it should be in private and absolutely NO ONE else will be told.
     
  8. kesmi

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    Thank you all for the replies, I think the same as you do, I'm tired of living a lie, I just wanna be happy and be myself, I'm 17 btw, it's time already to come out ...