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Are there more bottoms than tops?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Beware Of You, Aug 3, 2013.

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Top/Bottom or Vers?

  1. I am a Top

    23 vote(s)
    13.1%
  2. I am a Bottom

    57 vote(s)
    32.4%
  3. I am Versatile

    72 vote(s)
    40.9%
  4. I don't know

    24 vote(s)
    13.6%
  1. Beware Of You

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    Its just something that I have noticed, I seem to know far more fellow bottoms than tops.
     
  2. Hexagon

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    Its possible, though I understand there is a stigma associated with it as well. (receiving=feminine=bad misogynist logic)
     
  3. myheartincheck

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    I've noticed there are more bottoms too! I wonder why it's that way...
     
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    feminization of gay male brain whilst in the womb?
     
  5. enigmeow

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    It is easier to bottom because it just requires relaxing and does not require being actually physically aroused.

    I love to spoon which tends to lead to me topping who I am spooning.. :slight_smile:
     
  6. Wells

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    I'm too young to know but I think I'd prefer bottom.
     
  7. Amerigo

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    i don't think it's because it's "easier", that's like (like - not entirely) saying it's easier for a lesbian to engage in intercourse with a man because she'll be just laying there. maybe it is, but i doubt it. enjoyment factor is involved, but then again, both parties aren't always enjoying it!
     
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    Just saying, I'm the exception to this post :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  9. Sorcerer

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    I suppose it's a power thing. With a big guy, I'd say yes sir, with a twink he'd say yes sir.(*hug*)
     
  10. Northern

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    I don't think it is like that. Some people have preferences and maybe it's just that bottoms tend to be more vocal. But it might just be something people say and don't really mean.
     
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    I like both, but prefer to be the bottom. Even when I top my mate, I like to have a butt-plug in.

    But as a bottom, I certainly don't just lay there...far from that!
     
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    If you are going to go to a restaurante that specializes in something exclusive, you are going to want to try the exclusives first.

    Its mainly out of curiosity. In the real world, things are much more balanced; however, the majority of gay men, on this site for instance, are virgins and therefore find receiving much more mysterious and foreign than penetrating. Its much harder for men to imagine pleasure from being penetrated rather than penetrating and considering the fact that their sexuality encourages, curiosity is very common.

    Though truthfully many things tend to change after experiences have actually been had.
     
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    There a problem... There are more bottoms than tops.
     
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    I'm improving the top score :slight_smile:
     
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    I haven't really noticed more or less to be honest. Kind of a mixed bag for me. I can really do both but prefer top.
     
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    Versatile, I like dominate women, and I think a girl in control is really hot. However I would also like to be in control from time to time, and even when I'm a bottom I don't think I'd be submissive..
     
  17. George

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    I can't really say with certainty since I'm still a virgin. I think it would depend on who I was with though. So I might be versatile.

    All I know is I like bottoming on League of Legends, if that is any indicator. :lol:
     
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    That's weird. Most of the guys I know in real life are tops. Guess it shows how big the world is, huh.

    I haven't had sex, but topping sounds more appealing to me as well.
     
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    I am a virgin soooo... i wouldnt know
     
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    I'm versatile (at least based on my fantasies...), but probably with a slight preference for bottoming.