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first kiss/relationship

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by grumpybrit, Aug 5, 2013.

  1. grumpybrit

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    so...is there anyone around my age who still hasn't had there first or relationship? just wondering :confused:
     
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    You arent the only one! Dont worry! I have yet to have any sort of relationship with a guy let alone a kiss. I think id prefer to not rush right into one.
     
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    That depends on how old you are. You haven't listed your age on the sidebar.
     
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    well I had my first kiss with a guy & 16 nothing special didnt have a meaning .
    you dont say how old you are mate.
     
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    How old are you? :slight_smile:

    I'm 20 and I've never had a relationship or a kiss or even come close to anything. I've only known four gay people in person that I can think of off the top of my head; two weren't out at the time, one was a few years older than me and the last one, the only one who I still currently know, is rather antisocial. So I've never really been in a good position to do anything.

    #foreveralone
     
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    Depends on how old you are :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I haven't done anything serious with a guy yet.
     
  8. grumpybrit

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    never noticed my age wasn't listed! well i'm 16
     
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    16! Don't even worry about it, you've got all the time in the world to find the perfect guy! Just feel pity for those of us who are perpetual virgins in their twenties! :laugh: :tears:
     
  10. Well, I'm 20 and I've never been in a real relationship before. It sucks, and it doesn't help that most of my friends are straight and in relationships. I did kiss a few guys though, but it wasn't special... we were just hooking up, I barely felt anything for them. At least it was better than kissing a girl lol I've done that before too.
     
  11. Night

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    I had my first kiss and relationship when I was 18.

    Neither were special and in fact they both turned out awfully.

    You have quite a bit of time to find someone for a kiss/relationship. Don't rush things.
     
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    First girl kiss 9 years old, ill have to admit, girls lips are pretty good, but when i was in the seventh grade i went out on a date, and it was ok, nothing great, thats why i may be homoflexible. It was with a different girl and our kiss was o.k., but than i had homosexualm thoughts when i was 13
     
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    Oh lord, I swear that the world has just doomed me for a life of loneliness! Haha seriously though, I'm 18 and I have never even gotten close to being in any sort of a relationship with a guy! No kiss, no dates, just a whole lotta NOTHIN!!! :tears:

    Every guy I've liked has been straight, so now I'm just assuming that it's not gonna happen anytime soon, and that's alright! Who needs a man? The single life is still fun (!)(!)(!)
     
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    at 16 I was scared to even talk to another gay person it will happen
     
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    Had boyfriends no girlfriends but I did have like a side touchy thing with a girl last all interest when I found out she had a girlfriend:dry:
     
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    Sadly no :/
     
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    I had my first kiss at 20 and my first serious relationship started when I was 22. You've got heaps of time ahead of you :slight_smile:
     
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    I still haven't had my first kiss or relationship and I'm 23. I was never interested in even trying those with women. Back when I was 11 years old a girl at school tried to kiss me but I wouldn't let her. The idea just didn't seem right to me yet I couldn't explain why at the time. Same-sex relationships have been completely out of the question due spending most of my life in denial. So that leaves me with nothing. I fantasize about what all those "firsts" will be like, and I really hope to have them within the next couple years. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Every time I see your posts, I want some of that gay cake. :lol:
     
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    Lol at your age half the people that say that have done that stuff are lying