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how old were you when you had your first kiss..

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  1. chercheur

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    ..and is it pathetic I have never been kissed :frowning2:?

    i guess it's not for lack of offers.. but in boy mode it was wrong cuz i felt like a girl and kinda wanted to save myself for the day i KNEW would come when i WAS a girl. now that i am in transition... finding the right guy is hard. again, there's offers! but then here's the problem: either they DON'T know in which case it's kinda deceitful and not special i think, or i tell them and they head for the hills. and the ones that don't care seem to be by and large creeps.

    i dunno... pleaase tell me i am not the only 18 year old on here to never be kissed XD! cuz i feel kinda pathetic for it looolz
     
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  2. BMC77

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    Well, I've got you beat! I'm 42.5 years old, and I've never been kissed.

    And (sigh), while this sounds a little pessimistic, I guess a part of me expects never to be kissed.:tears:
     
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  3. Randy

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    I haven't had my first kiss til I was 19. Would've probably been 18 or so but I wasn't comfortable with myself yet.
     
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    My first "kiss" was when I was 15 during a spin the bottle game. However, my first actual not game kiss didn't happen for another year.
     
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    I wouldn't worry too much. I felt the same way, and recently (a few months ago when I was still 17) I was drunkish at this party and I ended up talking to this guy, and we ended up hooking up off to the side. I think as long as you're social and put yourself in those kinds of situations it'll happen sooner or later. Honestly though, I don't feel like my life is any different than it was before, so it's not a big change.
     
    #5 lostlifeguard, Aug 9, 2013
  6. drwinchester

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    16, on a dare with my best friend. We later dated. :grin: Only person I've ever kissed. Never kissed open mouthed, believe it or not.
     
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    14 with a girl, 21 with a guy. It definitely can take longer for folks on the LGBT side.
     
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    I was 17 when I had my first kiss. :slight_smile:
     
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    Well Assuming you mean a kiss I actually enjoyed, it was this year at 17
     
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    Still haven't kissed someone, and I'm not in a hurry; there's plenty of time.
     
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  11. Oddish

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    I know plenty of people who are 18+ who haven't had their first kiss yet. Not as rare as you think, and it's not lame at all. Better to save it and have it meaningful, right?

    I had mine at 16 with my best friend. We were sitting against a fence adjacent to a petrol station we bought soda and candy from, and it just kinda happened. She said my mouth tasted like Jones bubblegum soda. It was weird but nice.
     
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    First off, welcome back! We didn't talk much but I think I may have replied to a thread or two of yours

    Back to the question, it isn't pathetic at all. People go through these steps at different times. It is not a race so there's no rush!

    As for my first kiss, it depends what you count as a first kiss. I consider my first real kiss to be at 13 (it was with a guy) but I got a few quick pecks before that. My first kiss with a girl was at 14
     
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    I had my first kiss when I was 11 and it was with a girl. It was the only kiss I ever had:-/
     
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    I was 12 with another boy
     
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    thanks for your replies! you were all so youung loolz XD i guess for me it's cuz... i want it to not just be something random and meaningless. i want it to be like POW fiawoooks lolz you know? like something really special and memorable <333
     
    #15 chercheur, Aug 9, 2013
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    I was 19 and it was well worth the wait. :slight_smile:
     
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    I've never kissed a person, yet. >_<
     
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    20. So older than you are now. :slight_smile:
     
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    I was 17. It was alright :slight_smile:
     
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    I was two months shy of being twenty.
     
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