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'Liking' Two People

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by treeofleaves, Aug 24, 2013.

  1. treeofleaves

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    Do you think its possible for someone to 'like' two different people. perhaps not if your in a relatoinship, because that would be unloyal. but if you just have a 'crush' on two different people, perhaps if you dont really have a chance with either of them, but you just 'like' them both. whether it be a boy and girl, boy and boy, girl and girl. whatever. what do you think. can someone like two different people?

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    Easily...Heck you could like a hundred people at the same time...it's all chemicals and circumstance!
     
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    You can like several people at the same time. Happened to my ex-boyfriend. :/ Hence, the ex-prefix.
     
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    Trust me I know how that goes, it is possible, can be annoying, but it does happen.
     
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    Only two? :grin: In my case, I usually have one or two big crushes and then some smaller ones who I'm less sure about.
     
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    Did Katniss not "like" both Peeta and Gale?
    Did Bella not "like" both Edward and Jacob?
    Did Archie not "like" both Betty and Veronica?
     
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    Dude, I was on a wonky "love parallelogram" back when I was in middle school; one might have been trying to reciprocate the feelings back too--but I'll never know since I lost touch with said person after a semester.
     
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    I've unfortunately done it all the time. However, it was because I have been in love on two separate occasions, and I couldn't shake the deep seeded hope that maybe they would one day reciprocate my feelings.

    I'm pretty much over both of them now though. It took years though, and I still have some lingering feelings for both of them, but it's not as consuming as it once was.
     
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    I will usually care about one person significantly more even if I do have crushes on more than one person at a time, but yeah this happens all the time. People in relationships have crushes on other people too but I can't say that's so bad as long as they don't act on it and remain loyal to the relationship.
     
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    Yes, of course. There are even relationships with more than 2 people involved. :wink:
    I get small crushes on people regularly. Sometimes at the same time. They pass, if I don't pay much of attention to them. :slight_smile: (I do this with girls often, because i assume everyone is straight...:/)