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who do i come out to 1st

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by jindo, Aug 26, 2013.

  1. jindo

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    thats it really im nt out 2 any1 and I dno who to come out 2 1st :s
     
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    you come out when your ready to if its your parents I told mum&dad together and it went better than expected i was 16 .if its close friends do you have an idea how they will take it .
     
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    I want to tell my best friend ut I dnt wana wreck being friends with him :frowning2: n I think mum mite be ok with it but I know my dad wont :s
     
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    Is it likely to wreck your friendship with him?
     
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    with my dad or friend?
     
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    Your friend
     
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    I dno if it will just dnt wana risk it :s im such a chicken lol
     
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    with your friend you sound as if he-she may not take it well if thats the case I would wait or test the water how do they feel about other people . your mum & dad are they still together or separated it dont say but if you think your mum will take it better then talk with her .
     
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    its a he n ur probs right I shuld wait id hate it if I told him n then he just told every1 :frowning2: n my parents still together n I kno my mum will take better im just scared for what will happen when she tells dad :s