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just wondering

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Ryguy76, May 20, 2008.

  1. Ryguy76

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    hi everyone i was just wondering do you think you are butch or affeminate?
     
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    Neither. If I had to pick, I'm probably on the "butch" side.

    I took an online test once. "How gay are you?" 100 questions, and the higher your score, the gayer you were supposed to be.

    My partner got a 48.
    My brother (who's straighter than I-70 through Kansas) got a 19.
    I got a 2.

    Two. And one point was for knowing all the lyrics to "I Will Survive". It's true, I do. But I also know all the lyrics to "Ace of Spades", and that should negate that point. :slight_smile:

    I don't recall what the other point was for. Probably for liking to have sex with guys.

    I do have some effeminate traits that come out from time to time. I don't keep them down, nor do I flaunt them. They're just kind of there. Sometimes, when I laugh, it comes out as a high-pitched sort of giggle. Which is weird - I normally laugh fairly low. Also, when I point at something, I do this weird sort of flourish with my wrist before pointing. My partner was wondering if I was really gay (even after sleeping with him!) until he saw me do that. Then he felt better. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    LOL! :roflmao:

    I'd say I'm more butch. Heck - I've been married and have two kids. I like cars. 'nuf said.
     
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    Butch, lol, I'm into cars, wrestling, racing, stuff like that, and plus none of my friends that im out too never suspected me as not being straight....BUT, i do listen to some Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, but that's occasionaly, mostly I listen to alternative or metal songs, so it cancels out :slight_smile:
     
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    since i like to put things inot percents ill say 75% Affeminate and 25% butch
     
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    I'd say that to most I know i'm portrayed as a very butch person, somebody who you wouldn't like to mess with i've been told. But to a few close friend, they realise that I'm really a sensitive sole.

    so... both.
     
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    Effeminate, but with some butch tendencies. I act all macho in front of my homophobic friends but my close friends say I'm a really caring and compassionate person :slight_smile:
     
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    I think that I'm about 2 parts Effeminate and 1 part Butch. :grin:
     
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    :grin: Testing agrees!

    According to This Test...

    Stand up and be heard! You're 68% gay!
    You're gay! Deny it if you want, but it's all too clear. Our advice: embrace it. You aren't going to get away from this one.

    And according to This test...

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    Neither really. Though most people don't realise I'm gay until I tell them and I don't think I am in effeminate.
     
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    id say im halfway between the two. (on the lesbian scale XD)
    i like girly things, but i also like guy-ish things...
    i like some girly girls, and i like some butchy girls.
    i dont really sway to eather side. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'd like to think i am half way, although i probably lean toward the effeminate side.
     
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    I think I am more parts butch than affeminate, but I have my affeminate moments. so I guess that it is a little bit of both.
     
  14. Well, being a girl... I don't know. I mean, I'm not butch, but I'm not super-effeminate either. I'm a sort of tomboy, I guess, but not really. So I guess I have no idea. Though my best friend did say to me "You're not butch at all. You're like a lipstick bisexual." I signed her yearbook "lipstick girl." :icon_wink
     
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    i guess im effeminate:slight_smile:
     
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    i'm halfway between the two.
     
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    i'm pretty butch. i wear make-up but i'm muscular and i take on the role of the guy in a relationship. i'm very protective and strong. I played with with dinosaurs not barbies and i used to catch bugs so i've been a tom-boy pretty much my whole life.