Neither. If I had to pick, I'm probably on the "butch" side. I took an online test once. "How gay are you?" 100 questions, and the higher your score, the gayer you were supposed to be. My partner got a 48. My brother (who's straighter than I-70 through Kansas) got a 19. I got a 2. Two. And one point was for knowing all the lyrics to "I Will Survive". It's true, I do. But I also know all the lyrics to "Ace of Spades", and that should negate that point. I don't recall what the other point was for. Probably for liking to have sex with guys. I do have some effeminate traits that come out from time to time. I don't keep them down, nor do I flaunt them. They're just kind of there. Sometimes, when I laugh, it comes out as a high-pitched sort of giggle. Which is weird - I normally laugh fairly low. Also, when I point at something, I do this weird sort of flourish with my wrist before pointing. My partner was wondering if I was really gay (even after sleeping with him!) until he saw me do that. Then he felt better. Lex
LOL! :roflmao: I'd say I'm more butch. Heck - I've been married and have two kids. I like cars. 'nuf said.
Butch, lol, I'm into cars, wrestling, racing, stuff like that, and plus none of my friends that im out too never suspected me as not being straight....BUT, i do listen to some Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, but that's occasionaly, mostly I listen to alternative or metal songs, so it cancels out
I'd say that to most I know i'm portrayed as a very butch person, somebody who you wouldn't like to mess with i've been told. But to a few close friend, they realise that I'm really a sensitive sole. so... both.
Effeminate, but with some butch tendencies. I act all macho in front of my homophobic friends but my close friends say I'm a really caring and compassionate person
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Neither really. Though most people don't realise I'm gay until I tell them and I don't think I am in effeminate.
id say im halfway between the two. (on the lesbian scale XD) i like girly things, but i also like guy-ish things... i like some girly girls, and i like some butchy girls. i dont really sway to eather side.
I think I am more parts butch than affeminate, but I have my affeminate moments. so I guess that it is a little bit of both.
Well, being a girl... I don't know. I mean, I'm not butch, but I'm not super-effeminate either. I'm a sort of tomboy, I guess, but not really. So I guess I have no idea. Though my best friend did say to me "You're not butch at all. You're like a lipstick bisexual." I signed her yearbook "lipstick girl." :icon_wink
i'm pretty butch. i wear make-up but i'm muscular and i take on the role of the guy in a relationship. i'm very protective and strong. I played with with dinosaurs not barbies and i used to catch bugs so i've been a tom-boy pretty much my whole life.