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What age did you come out or are planning to?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ginahollyh, Sep 4, 2013.

  1. ginahollyh

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    I started coming out a month ago, so was 20. I'm 21 next week, so I'll be 21 when I come out properly (hopefully!)
     
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    I was thinking when I"m 19 or so. Possibly earlier to some close friends, but to the public 19. Hopefully. Highly doubtful.
     
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    I always told myself I would come out after graduating from university but now am thinking about doing it until I get my own place, God knows when that'll happen. I need a boyfriend :frowning2: or at least a roomie haha.
     
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    If my current plan works out, in about a year, when I'll be 21.
     
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    Let's see, I turn 20 in a few weeks so......47?

    I don't know honestly. Right now I can't see myself coming out anytime in the foreseeable future, but I just don't know. :frowning2:
     
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    72. Is that a record? It helps that my sex drive is still 14 years old.
     
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    The first time I came out I was around 4 or 5. After being brainwashed for years into thinking I had to be a guy by therapists and the church I didn't come out again until I was 27. Being attracted to other women while having a "penis"/"natures middle finger" sure didn't help my cause at the time. :dry:
     
  10. I started to come out to a couple of friends when I was 14. The list has been growing ever since that day. The last people I came out (more like got outed) to were my friend's two parents.

    I'm planning to come out to my nephew the next time I see him.
     
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    Came out this year, so 22.
     
  12. I'm 21, and I came out to my mom and one friend this year. I have no idea when I'll come out to anyone else, but it probably won't be for quite some time.
     
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    I've just started coming out gradually to a few of my friends and my sister, aged 22. it's kinda funny cause most of them already had an idea haha. It's also really weird being asked what guys I like and stuff haha, but it's good it's out in the open now. I don't have any plan of when to come out to others, just gonna wait and see what happens lol. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hoping to be out of the closet publicly by next year so 19 then.
     
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    I came out as bisexual at 35 years old. Just last week I came out as gay.
     
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    I began to come out earlier this year, when I was 25 years and 364 days old. The day before my 26th birthday, I changed my interested in on Facebook to read "Men and Women". I chose this day because I knew that my profile would be getting a lot of traffic the next day with all those birthday wishes. This was visible to a large number of my friends, but no family members.

    A month later, I had both my first verbal coming out, as well as my first family member, my mom. Three months later, just last week, I came out to my stepdad.
     
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    I realized I was gay and came out at 21.

    Todd
     
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    I came out gradually, but I plan to tell the rest of my family when I move out and can support myself, so probably when I'm 22 or at the latest 23. After that, I won't hide it anymore.
     
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    Started at 19, almost done at 20.
     
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