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s5m1 · 23rd May 2008, 06:41 PM

I had the most amazing date last night! I can’t wipe the smile off my face. I feel like a kid again, so I have to tell everyone about it. He is smart, funny, sexy and cute. He has short brown hair and beautiful green eyes. We had a wonderful dinner together. The food, the ambience, the company were all just right. We talked and talked. There was no doubt to the server that we were a couple, but I did not care. Later, we watched a movie on TV, with my head on his lap. It felt so nice to be held in his arms. For the first time in my life, I felt that if this relationship were to go somewhere, I would want to come out to everyone, because I could not imagine excluding him from any part of my life. I finally know how that feels.

23rd May 2008, 06:43 PM

Aww that's so cute =] I'm glad it went well and you got a good feeling from it.

PatC · 23rd May 2008, 06:59 PM

Congrats

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You are very, very lucky. Don't lose him

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panda · 23rd May 2008, 07:17 PM

A wonderful feeling.

hoping · 23rd May 2008, 07:26 PM

congrats man

Alexander · 23rd May 2008, 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by s5m1

I had the most amazing date last night! I can’t wipe the smile off my face. I feel like a kid again, so I have to tell everyone about it. He is smart, funny, sexy and cute. He has short brown hair and beautiful green eyes. We had a wonderful dinner together. The food, the ambience, the company were all just right. We talked and talked. There was no doubt to the server that we were a couple, but I did not care. Later, we watched a movie on TV, with my head on his lap. It felt so nice to be held in his arms. For the first time in my life, I felt that if this relationship were to go somewhere, I would want to come out to everyone, because I could not imagine excluding him from any part of my life. I finally know how that feels.

That's so cute!

congrats!

*this is me not finding sexual innuendo in certain parts of that description* LOL

Nodnarb · 23rd May 2008, 09:41 PM

Awwww....congrats!

Good luck to you two!

ccdd · 24th May 2008, 03:28 PM

That's awesome!! I hope that it continues to go well

beckyg · 24th May 2008, 03:31 PM

So sweet!

Congrats!

jazzrawr · 24th May 2008, 05:49 PM

awes, thats great!
im so happy for you

thats such a great feeling. <3

byeee · 25th May 2008, 10:57 AM

All the best

interstella · 25th May 2008, 02:16 PM

Congrats! I wish I had a BF...

**Jim1454** · 25th May 2008, 02:27 PM

That's such a nice story! I'm really happy for you!

I'm in the same place now - if we're out together, I don't really care if people assume we're a couple. In fact, I'm helping my bf look for furniture for his new house and one salesman jumped immediately to the conclusion that we were a couple, and was talking as much to me about the furniture as he was to my bf. It was pretty funny!

25th May 2008, 02:39 PM

AWWW!!! that is so cute!!!

I know it will all go great for you two. cheers!!

Jamie · 25th May 2008, 02:54 PM

wow... congratulations. Reminds me of my first time with Erik

feels sooo good doesn't it.. and I hope it continues for you

Congrats again

**Lexington** · 25th May 2008, 03:21 PM

That sounds great! But don't go looking too far ahead. Or, as my recording engineer friend tells bands in the studio all the time, "Let's not pick out what we're wearing to the Grammys just yet." Focus on date two, and take it from there.

Lex

Pepsi · 25th May 2008, 04:01 PM

Thats awesome

23rd May 2008, 06:41 PM	#1
s5m1 Gay and Couldn't be Happier! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Maryland Age: 46 Posts: 861 Join Date: Dec 2007	First Date - oh could love be in the air? I had the most amazing date last night! I can’t wipe the smile off my face. I feel like a kid again, so I have to tell everyone about it. He is smart, funny, sexy and cute. He has short brown hair and beautiful green eyes. We had a wonderful dinner together. The food, the ambience, the company were all just right. We talked and talked. There was no doubt to the server that we were a couple, but I did not care. Later, we watched a movie on TV, with my head on his lap. It felt so nice to be held in his arms. For the first time in my life, I felt that if this relationship were to go somewhere, I would want to come out to everyone, because I could not imagine excluding him from any part of my life. I finally know how that feels.

23rd May 2008, 06:43 PM	#2
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? Aww that's so cute =] I'm glad it went well and you got a good feeling from it.

23rd May 2008, 06:59 PM	#3
PatC Member Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Holy crap, I came out to my best friend in shock Location: Ocean City Age: 19 Posts: 98 Join Date: May 2008	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? Congrats. You are very, very lucky. Don't lose him.

23rd May 2008, 07:17 PM	#4
panda EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Toronto,Canada Age: 67 Posts: 4,653 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? A wonderful feeling.

23rd May 2008, 07:26 PM	#5
hoping EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: australia Age: 23 Posts: 527 Join Date: May 2007	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? congrats man

23rd May 2008, 09:41 PM	#7
Nodnarb Notoriously Homosexual Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people Location: Ames, Iowa Age: 20 Posts: 3,875 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? Awwww....congrats! Good luck to you two! __________________ Better to be hated for who you are, than be loved for who you're not.

24th May 2008, 03:28 PM	#8
ccdd Procrastination Queen Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: 30(ish) friends, but mostly closeted. Out to mum Location: UK Posts: 1,009 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? That's awesome!! I hope that it continues to go well

24th May 2008, 03:31 PM	#9
beckyg PFLAG Mom Community Liaison Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: Out to everyone/Yes, parents come out too! Location: Middle of Oregon Age: 50 Posts: 7,572 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? So sweet! Congrats! __________________ "When we're free to love anyone we choose, When this worlds big enough for all different views, When we're all free to worship from our own kind of pew, Then we shall be free" ~ Garth Brooks

24th May 2008, 05:49 PM	#10
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? awes, thats great! im so happy for you thats such a great feeling. <3 __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

25th May 2008, 10:57 AM	#11
byeee wanderer... Full Member Gender: Guy Orientation: totally G.A.Y. :) Out Status: practically everyone! Location: HB Age: 23 Posts: 167 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? All the best

25th May 2008, 02:16 PM	#12
interstella Don't call me GaGa... Full Member Gender: Genderqueer Orientation: Queer Out Status: Everyone Location: London, UK Age: 18 Posts: 700 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? Congrats! I wish I had a BF... __________________ Lesbian? Gay? Bisexual? Transgender? Queer? Whatever.

25th May 2008, 02:27 PM	#13
Jim1454 EC 'Dad' EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto Age: 41 Posts: 7,430 Join Date: Mar 2007	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? That's such a nice story! I'm really happy for you! I'm in the same place now - if we're out together, I don't really care if people assume we're a couple. In fact, I'm helping my bf look for furniture for his new house and one salesman jumped immediately to the conclusion that we were a couple, and was talking as much to me about the furniture as he was to my bf. It was pretty funny! __________________ Jim "It is never too late to be what you might have been."

25th May 2008, 02:39 PM	#14
Quitex Guest Posts: n/a	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? AWWW!!! that is so cute!!! I know it will all go great for you two. cheers!!

25th May 2008, 02:54 PM	#15
Jamie Fake-Norwegian Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: I'm not Gay, my boyfriend is! Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Drammen, Norway Age: 23 Posts: 784 Join Date: Dec 2006	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? wow... congratulations. Reminds me of my first time with Erik feels sooo good doesn't it.. and I hope it continues for you Congrats again

25th May 2008, 03:21 PM	#16
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,366 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? That sounds great! But don't go looking too far ahead. Or, as my recording engineer friend tells bands in the studio all the time, "Let's not pick out what we're wearing to the Grammys just yet." Focus on date two, and take it from there. Lex

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25th May 2008, 04:01 PM	#17
Pepsi R-Y-R-Y Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out Location: Staten Island, NYC Age: 20 Posts: 4,348 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: First Date - oh could love be in the air? Thats awesome __________________ "I'm not that typical baby. I'm a bad kid like my mom and dad made me. I'm not that cool and you hate me. I'm a bad kid, that's the way that they made me" - GAGA