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  1. quietgirl

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    streight people complement them by saying if i was gay i would be so in to you
    example- at a gay friends party i told this gay girl i loved her eyes thay were absolutly beautiful and if i was gay thay could melt me actually thay did i couldnt stop looking at her iprobably made her uncomfertable as hell quietgirls mom:smilewave
     
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    I wouldn't mind. Just sounds like a compliment to me.
     
    #2 Hexagon, Oct 5, 2013
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    Yeah, sounds like a genuine compliment to me. But that's just me :slight_smile:
     
    #3 RainbowMan, Oct 5, 2013
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    A few guys have told me that. I just tell them "What's stopping you?" *wink*

    Yes, I'm bad at flirting.
     
    #4 Hrantou, Oct 5, 2013
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    Doesn't bother me in the slightest really, I just laugh and thank them usually, or if it's a good looking guy then I melt.
     
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    I'd take it as a compliment, definitely.
     
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    I would take it as a compliment. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hope you don't mind if I steal this. It's just so me it hurts.

    Other than that, if someone ever said that to me I'd take it as a compliment.
     
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    I would definitely take that as a compliment :grin:
     
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    It's much nicer to be told that than "ew...you're gay!" :lol:
     
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    It doesn't bother me at all. I think it's hilarious and flattering. :slight_smile:
     
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    Nope, I would definitely take that as a compliment. :grin:
     
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    No, but I would probably go red in the face and start stuttering in embarrassment.
     
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    I like it, it's great if I need something to lift my spirits up.

    I just hate it when I have somebody who's bi that says that I'm their type, then neglect to say they have a girlfriend :/
     
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    I take it as a compliment. Not that I get it often, but when I do it makes me feel a little better about myself. :grin:
     
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    ^^:lol:

    So very much better!

    Course, hearing "If I were gay I would so totally make out with you right now" from a straight attractive BFF--whole different story. :dry:
     
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    Nobody has said that to me, but no I'd probably be pretty flattered. If I were single, I'd definitely want to challenge them with "I'm not stopping you :wink:"
     
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    I'd just take it as a compliment and move on. :slight_smile:
     
    #18 BryanM, Oct 6, 2013
  19. andersonh09

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    It doesn't bother me. My roommate and I have a weird relationship (Non sexual) and when people comment on how odd we are she describes our relationship as "if I were gay I would totally be dating her." I take is as a compliment, but also think it's quite humorous.
     
    #19 andersonh09, Oct 6, 2013
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    I'd find it hilarious!
     
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