Do you like stereotypical gays/lesbians

It not about whether some one is femmine or masculine but whether they are nice or not. I personally have little experience with femmine guys but I'm sure there are femme guys out there who would be great friends.

 

I'm not really a fan of stereotypical gay guys mostly because I haven't had any positive encounters with a guy like that. Doesn't stop me from trying to be friends, but it's hard at times.

 

Please no femme bashing ...we need love too.

Actually I've dated girls on all sides of the spectrum, the ultra femmes (my wife) to the butchiest of butches.
I am more attracted to feminine women, but I will say the few butch women I've dated made me feel like a queen. Physically it wasn't my thing, but they are the sweetest, softest, nicest women ever. That hard exterior is just that...a hard exterior. they are all soft and cuddly on the inside. I loved getting the flowers and candy

But... I am more attracted to the feminine women. Something about the perfume and makeup and my wife is more aggressive sexually...which didn't happen with any of the butch women I dated. Femmes (in my opinion) like to top from the bottom lol.

 

Not my forte. Some make good friends, but I'm just not attracted to feminine guys.

 

I kind of like guys that are not too butch or feminine, somewhere in the middle is my personal preference. I can always make exceptions though.

 

Yup haha nothing much more I can say...except for the first quote in my signature ahah

 

Doesn't matter to me. It's more about the personality. In either case I do prefer someone who can do sports or get dirty without caring too much, boy or girl. Wether that person be masculine or feminine doesn't matter.

PS. sports does not automatically = masculine

Something I in most cases can't stand though is people who are overly feminine to the point that they look like brats. That just annoys the floop out of me.

 

Despite not being even remotely like the gay stereotype myself, I tend to go for guys who are very stereotypically gay. My one friend who I'm out to described it as the "baby-faced" look, which makes me sound like a pedo or something. >><<

 

I'm not attracted to feminine guys all that much.
I'd even say it's a bit of turn off to be honest.
Nothing against them of course, just not my thing.
I'm sure they make for great friends.

 

I smell a thread derailing soon...

Well, in the hope of a fair discussion, there's only one stereotype that I care about...the one where they like men I don't really care about the stereotypes. I care about the person. You can be feminine or masculine or green with polka dots. What I wanna know is, are you a good person?

 

I get along really well with masculine women (no matter if they're queer or straight).

I also get along well with feminine men, as long as they can give me some of their energy, as I have trouble keeping up with them sometimes.

 

I wouldn't mind being friends with a stereotypical femme game guy, provided they weren't catty and were nice. I doubt I'd date one though. I'm attracted to guys who are at least decently masculine. In other words, I (unfortunately ) like guys who I can't obviously tell are gay.

 

I get along well with masculine guys and butch girls more than I do femmes and flamboyant guys. Feminine things ain't my cup of tea.
However,I've met some very friendly feminine people, so my preferences won't stop them from befriending me.
But I like people who understand my references to "nerdy" media the most, no matter how feminine, masculine, or anything else.

 

I like women who are feminine.

 

I'm really ok with feminine gays, and sometimes I even get a little feminine myself, but people seem to hate them, like a lot! Not just the gays, also transgender MtF people get A LOT of hate: I was walking in the street with friends, this MtF woman passes by, friends start making comments like "It's the first time I'm seeing someone like her" "you mean 'like him' ?" "more like it!" *laughs* And I was like "I think we should say "like her" because that's how this person feels like" and they were like "yea whatever"... I think generally femininity is considered as something negative not only in gay or transgender men, but in women too!

 

Depends what you mean by stereotypical...there seems to be a few gay stereotypes out there, at least, as far as men go.

They tend to occlude what I see as the 'authentic personality' of the individual, and I see such stereotypes acting as a protective facade, whether tending towards the hyper-masculine or the exaggerated effeminate. Thus, I often find them hard to get close to, because they seem to have erected a sort of barrier, a camouflage of sorts in which they can blend in to some sense of so-called community. My thoughts are that such people may indeed be wonderful, but would benefit by being better able to express their own unique identities.