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How do you feel about threesomes/group sex?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by chercheur, Oct 8, 2013.

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Would you have group sex?

  1. Yeah, totally!

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  2. No, not ever.

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  3. Maybe/depends on the circumstances (specify)

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  4. Other (specify)

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  1. chercheur

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    I sorta discussed this with someone recently (talking about being with him and his boyfriend at the same time) and I dunno, the ideas kinda hot, to me, truthfully. I'd be down, tbh, haha. I feel like I kinda want to do a lot of different things, at this point.

    What about you guys? Would you ever be with more than one person, sexually, at once?
     
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    I think it'd be cool if all of you were in mutual agreement.
    Personally I wouldn't want to be involved in one though because I think sex is something that should be shared with the person you love. I'm not really a fan of one night stands and whatnot. But everyone's different, they have different views. It's always cool to try new things.
     
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    Indeed it is pretty hot and satisfying(?) to fantasize about, I guess. But to actually doing it... honestly it kinda grosses me out... somehow it seems wrong to me, imo.
     
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    Meh, it used to turn me on and gross me out at the same time, too, but now it's just a turn on, to be honest. And like the above, I used to feel like sex should be saved for love and monogamy but I don't really, anymore. I feel like it's probably better with love but that doesn't mean you have to wait for it.
     
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    could be hot but could be dangerous lol
     
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    I am FAR from a person who would do that. I'm monogamous, so the idea of one is gross.
     
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    I'm strictly monogamous. So nope, never. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Just remember if you and your partner ever decide to ad a third to your bed communication is key. Focus on your partners emotions. Its risky for the relationship tho.
     
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    Depends, but likely no. Sex to me isn't a one-off thing, it's supposed to be with just one other person.
    But the whole idea of sex doesn't appeal to me in the first place, so unless it's under the circumstances that I absolutely must do it, I doubt I would.
     
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    Nope, not for me.
     
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    I AM the third, though, soo, yeaah (it's him and his bf, not me and mine, I'm not seeing anyone, atm).
     
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    I love the idea of it. I have two big fantasies in this regard. One is to be with a woman and a man at the same time, penetrating the woman while being penetrated myself.

    The other one is a kind of exhibitionist kink I have, where I want to get penetrated in front of an audience.
     
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    They can be fun. I wouldn't do it if I was in a relationship (and we decided to be exclusive) or any party was in an exclusive relationship. However, I think that the best are when there's at least one person there that you know and trust that will watch out for you (especially in a group situation). Problems only arise if you're not all being safe or if someone brings too much emotion to the situation. With certain parameters and precautions in place, group sex can be a wonderful experience, but it's not for everyone.

    Sharing is caring, after all :icon_wink
     
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    Yeah, why not.
     
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    I Erm... Did it once in my younger, crazier, 'straight' days. With 2 guys. And it was embarrassing and degrading. Maybe the situation was wrong though.
    Having one with 2 women is a fantasy of mine.,, but in reality, it would never happen.
     
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    It's on my to-do list of kink. :wink:
     
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    I feel really conflicted about threesomes. Part of me is totally turned off by them and another part wouldn't mind doing one with two people I love.
     
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    I used to have fantasies about threesome. But now I don't really looking for such an experience any more. It's weird that I never feel any sexual pleasure without love. Lol, that's bad, no matter how hot the other guy is. Oh, gosh. am I suffering from any sort of depression that keeps me away from sex?
     
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    No. Absolutely not.
     
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    I voted maybe/depends on the circumstances. With casual partners it sounds pretty hot.
    However, with my boyfriend, absolutely not. There's no way I could enjoy seeing him with someone else, and I sure as hell hope he feels the same way.