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How to Ask out a Guy?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by William, Oct 12, 2013.

  1. William

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    Now,I have a person who I like very much coming to my house because well I think he likes me back with the things he has done in the past.

    But you never know.

    What is the right approach to asking out a straight guy that you think is gay?

    Wait what?

    I worded that weird...hmm....

    Please answer this question.
     
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    The same way you'd ask out a girl? He might think it's a straight "hanging out" event though, so I'd try to find out for sure if he's into guys before planning activities. Because if you guess wrong and he's already at your house, it would get real awkward, real fast.

    If/once you know for sure he's gay though, just throw in a little flirting. Say you think he's really cute and want to spend time with him; he'll get the picture.
     
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    I agree with what Swordsman says. Try to find out if he's gay first and then make little steps towards the goal :wink:
     
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    well I would see if he brings it up first he may feel the same way but a little shy .
     
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    That sounds exciting. Lol, I tried this with a straight guy, and it turned out an epic failure. Wish you good luck haha
     
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    Thanks guys :grin: I have the perfect way of asking so this should be an adventure learning experience even if he does say no.

    Thanks again (*hug*)
     
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    Does he know you're bi?
     
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    Good luck!!! There is this one really cute guy at my school, only male cheerleader, omg though he is adorable, the other day he wore like black dress pants, black dress shoes, black dress shirt, and a pink button up vest with a matching bow tie! :love: (*hug*) :love:
     
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    Not yet,I intend to tell him when we walk my doggie.


    As for you Harry,thank you!!!
     
  10. William

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    So how about this approach:
    -When he get's to my house,go into the den where there's couched and video games blah blah
    -Sit him down on the couch and I sit next to him
    -Tell him I'm bisexual (everyone else knows but him :grin: even my parents)
    -If things go okay from there I will ask him to demonstrate what it's like to sleep on someone

    REWIND...
    So when my class and I went to Canada we had an adventurous time in the restaurant such as his foot going near my crotch I told him I had an erection and he laughed and walked away. Then we talked about penis size and masturbation techniques with each other then he said,"I'm going to go sleep on Kayla." And I said,"You like her dude!" Then he said,"I'll sleep on you if I could!"

    Moving on:
    -When he does that I'm going to sleep on him
    -Then we are going to watch videos of sorts
    -Then I'm gonna tell him,"If I had to go out with anyone it'd be you."
    -Then I'll ask him out


    (!)(!)(!)