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I have a crush

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ruby7799, Oct 15, 2013.

  1. ruby7799

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    So I have a crush on this guy and for the life of me I think hes gay but dont want to hit on him. I have 2 questions
    1.Is it alaways so hard to find a boy friend?
    2. What was your first crush?
     
  2. UIOP

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    1) I've been trying to find one for only about a year or so but it seems very difficult and I have had absolutely no success unfortunately. Don't give up though, eventually someone will come along, right?

    2) Actually, my first crush is right now (with a guy). I suspect that he may be gay or bi because he acts really weird whenever someone says anything about sexuality or relationships. Like you though, I also can't bring myself to hit on him. It's so scary!
     
  3. 1) It's insanely hard to find a boyfriend.
    2) Can't even remember my first crush...
     
  4. Ruthven

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    1. Man, I'm not trying to find one or get into anything until I'm like at least several months on T.

    2. I think my first one was in elementary, but I deem the one I had in junior high more official.
     
  5. leer

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    1 it took ages for me & mark to get together we had 4 dates over a couple of months .

    2 It was an older lad we traveled to school every morning he only lived round the corner from me .
     
  6. RandGen

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    It's hard for guys. If you think he's gay first ask if he is a homophobe. If not, ask him if he's gay later in life or tell him then ask him.
     
  7. Jasonincloset

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    1) it's so hard to find a bf. if you are out, then it would be a little bit easier. It's hard to imagine two in closet would end up well.

    2) Yeah, my first crush in with a guy on internet. Lol, after two sweet sweet months, it turned out to be an epic failure. Haha
     
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    1. I never tried. Probably it is hard.

    2. Ah Bruce Lee lol.
     
  9. lukeluvznicki13

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    Welcome to my world ^^^

    1. Apparently it is extremely difficult in high school but afterwards it gets easier
    2. my first guy crush is the one I am having on the moment with a guy.
     
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    1. Depends
    2. On myself (long story)
     
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    1. Much harder than it is for straight people.
    2. A guy.
     
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    1. It's extremely hard for gays to find a boyfriend. Especially in high school, but I have so much to do, I don't really have time to think about that. Luckily.
    2. A graduate from our school. Intelligent, good looking, all that. I was immediately hooked, if you will.
     
  13. DrkRayne

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    1.)It was hard to find my wife...I was in the closet and everyone I date was weird....

    2.)My first crush? Uh...I remember a girl in my 4th class but she doesnt count. My first real crush was when i was 15 and it was a friend of my sisters.
     
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    1. I'm not really looking for a boyfriend, but (anyway) it is....
    2. My first crush was a classmate (a girl). In that time i dont think it was a crush, but looking back it was a completely crush.
     
  15. LILuke

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    1. Don't even get me started.... :frowning2:
    2. My first crush on a guy was one of my friends' older brothers. Didn't last very long, I just remember that he was really cool, and really popular, and really cute.
     
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    1. I've given up. Male cis genders get too confused about my gender. (It's not that hard people!) 2. My third grade teacher, Miss Kyle. I cried when I heard she got married.