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The worst thing about being gay

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  1. gibson234

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    So I'm walking home from a lecture and my crush comes up to me to talk to me. This is very good. He smiles at me and stuff and I think maybe...

    But of course this was all to good to be true. When I asked him about what he planned to do this weekend. I got the dreaded g word. "Girlfriend". He has a girlfriend. :frowning2: I feel like an idiot.
     
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    I feel the same when I hear boyfriend. *sigh* lgbtq problems
     
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    Try a dating site! You have no idea how liberating your relationship opportunities will become when the question of your or their sexuality is completely irrelevant :3
     
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    Ohh ouch. That hurts :frowning2: I'm sorry man.
     
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    *Sympathy hugs* I've never gotten the girlfriend (or boyfriend) word, but I've joked about kissing a crush I wasn't out to before and she told me 'I'd never kiss you'. Broke my heart :'(
     
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    Yup, ive been in the same blasted situation. All the wonderful things your brain can imagine, and then reality slaps you in the face with no mercy whatsoever. Sorry to hear dude
     
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    Thanks for the sympathy *hugs*
     
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    The same happened to me last weekend, while on my way for a college exam. I found a really cute guy, who was also very nice, but he said the g word. I'm glad he didn't take long to do it, otherwise I would be even more disappointed.
     
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    (*hug*) A nice looking black guy was very friendly last week. He has a very feminine sounding voice. I think he is gay. Yesterday I heard him talking about a girlfriend and he would barely speak with me. I'm not sure if that's cover. I'd bet fifty bucks that he's not straight. Maybe he is afraid to be around someone that's out.
     
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    Finding out people you like are straight is the worst.

    Not having many people you can potentially get together with is the worst part of being gay I guess, I literally don't know a single gay guy it's like they're hiding from me :confused:
     
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    Worst thing about being bi? I can only guess because I've only ever had g-words :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: but to mention them to a person during a hypothetical single period and have them assume I'm straight. Seriously tragic misunderstanding may take place :frowning2:
     
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    Yeah, I had the same experience today. I was walking home from school with this cis straight gay guy. When we go our separate ways, he hugs me twice, looks into my eyes, tells me that my eyes are beautiful, then leans in like he's goin to kiss me. I ask him what he's doing and he just rubs our noses together. Then, he leans his forehead on mine and says, "If only you were..." "A girl?", I finish. "Yeah, that." is his reponse. Like really? I'm not attracted to him, but it still bothered me.
     
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    Constantly feeling isolated and alone.
     
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    Worst...feeling...ever. I'm sorry dude. (*hug*)
     
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    I'm sorry :frowning2: I feel ya.
    It can be hard to have any relationship when you're not open.
     
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    i had my dinner at a cafe where i live since i'm too lazy to cook, anyway the waiter was VERY nice, talkative and attentive (and might i say rather attractive), i got a little carried away at first - admittedly i literally fall in love with everyone nowadays so i had to come to my senses and tell myself "he's just doing his job, that's it". but he did go out of his way to make me a drink which wasn't even on the menu. service here is just the best.

    still, it's nice to be treated extra special by total strangers every now and then!

    wow. talk about being led on!
     
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    I would simply assume all men are straight unless they make it clear that they're gay. It may you to avoid getting upset.
     
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    I understand your feeling all too well.....It Sucks!!!
    *hug*
     
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    Another thing is.. Being automatically considered to be straight.
     
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    I've been there, now it seems multiple times. But, I think this is just a symptom of the larger "problem": being not-straight is still a minority, so the potential pool of suitable matches is small.