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Who do you see yourself with when you're older?

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  1. lil boi

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    Imagine the next 10-20 years from now. Who will you be with?


    For gays/lesbian, do you see yourself with someone of the same sex or alone or what?

    For bi/pan do you see yourself with someone of the same sex or different sex or sometimes one or the other?

    For aromantic (those who aren't interested in long-term relationships or relationship at all), do you even see yourself with another person?


    I'm just curious to see what goes on in other people's head. :wink:
     
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    Since I'm also homoromantic I see myself with a male identified person (trans or cis) or a genderqueer person. ^_^
     
  3. drwinchester

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    I have no idea. For me, it can go either way. But I'll admit, lot of my female crushes involve me imagining them as my Mrs. :grin:

    Lately, also really like the idea of being a father. Odd because for years, I hated the idea of being a parent but then again, I would've had to be a mother. So I see myself having at least one kid (probably adopted). Would like to have a son, somehow the idea of getting to have the father/son relationship I never got to experience appeals to me.
     
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    I feel like I'm probably going to end up with a girl, but I guess I'll have to wait and see.
     
  5. CupidBoy

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    I'd like to be in Scotland living my real dream, but I'm hoping at least I'll be in San Francisco with a great group of friends, a place to live and a wonderful guy that loves me.
     
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    I see myself with a man, since they're my gender preference, but you never know.
     
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    I will be with my laptop.
     
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    Alone. Because who would want to spend their life with an emotionally fucked up, ugly blob like this?
     
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    I'll have myself, my books, and my cats. Probably do a lot of pacing and mumbling and thinking too deeply.
     
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    I see myself with a guy. Or alone. Or (ideally) with my cat and a considerable collection of cheese.

    Whether or not I do end up with someone or not, I'm not too worried. I'm content being alone. Either one would be great. :slight_smile:

    But the cheese and my cat would be perfect. :thumbsup:
     
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    I can't see myself growing old with anyone else but my partner at this point.
     
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    I see myself with someone. Probably not married yet, but in a serious relationship in 10 years.
     
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    10 years from now I will be 24. I don't really know, I feel like I am going to be the type of person that will like date 2 people and then find my soulmate.

    Or the complete opposite, and like date everyone in this entire universe (with a penis of course! ;P) and never find my soulmate.

    Everything is extreme to me, i dont know.
     
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    Hopefully I will be a professor with my own lab and students. I would like to be in a stable relationship with a guy who can handle my quirks and often extreme introversion. Maybe he would also be a professor, which would be perfect! I wouldn't mind having an (adopted) child, but I know that being a scientist means a lot of time spent away from home, which would be hard on any kid.
     
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    I want children. That's for sure, but I don't really want to get married. I'd be open to adopting a child, though my preference is for them to be my own.

    Since I prefer women and want kids, I'd probably go with a bio-female. She can be cis, trans or genderqueer. Doesn't matter to me as long as she's/they are vegan, want children, and are of a similar political orientation. Again, I would be ok with adopting if I fell for a bio-male, but it seems less likely that that would happen.

    It's weird, I'm really socially awkward and don't like children, yet the thought of being a parent is so alluring to me now. I used to date solely to indulge in emotional cravings but now I want to settle down with someone and have children.
     
  16. Data

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    So call it an even 30-40 years old. I'll probably be married to a guy. Someone who I love deeply. Someone who loves me just as much. As of now I don't feel equipped to handle a child. I don't foresee a child in my life, but everyone tells me I'd be a great dad. :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't know who I'll be with. I think if I had a gender-specific image, it would be indicative of a gender preference, which I don't have. Maybe I'll be alone. I guess we'll see. As for what I'm going to do with my life, I have no idea about that either. I want to change the world and help people.
     
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    Probably my partner who I've been married to for the last 11 years

    Foxface
     
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    I hope I will be with a man that I love deeply. However, by that time, I'm hopefully a surgeon already and can also focus on climbing the career ladder. Perhaps I'll be alone, perhaps not. However, I would like to be surrounded by close friends even if I'm alone.
     
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    I would like to think that I might be in a relationship with a woman but given I'm 28 and have never had relationship with a woman I don't know how realistic that is. I do want children and ten years away might already be on the late side for me to have any biologically. The truth is I'd probably like a wife and kids! I definitely don't want to end up alone, I'm already going peculiar and talking to myself when in public because I do it so often when I'm home alone!