My mom is home and we went Christmas shopping today.

Alexander, it would be hard for any of us to give advice, as we don't really know the full situation and the reasons for the party. One thing I am pretty certain of is that most of your posts are "look at how rich I am".

 

dont think Alexandra's personal circumstances has anything to do with this post TBH more to do with the fact that he's getting time to spend time with his mum he dont do that allot due to work commitments .
have to admit Alexandra I find dressing up pets for party's pretty insane .

 

I like how creative you are - that's something you should tap into

 

ideas are good but maybe a zoo is a little extravagant or too flamboyant for you .

 

Even though reindeer (caribou) exist, they're pretty wild. I don't know if you could do a petting zoo type thing with them. They'd probably freak out and want to bolt.

Alex, I for one don't fault you for the posts you make or the things you mention in them. What is curious is how you mention things in casual conversation that are just so unheard of for middle class people. I read your post about a petting zoo and I smile and wonder who in the world is able to get a petting zoo fir their own party! Others read it and feel jealousy or misplaced anger. The fact is, that's your life. That's your normal. Nobody can fault you for that, or at least I can't. One thing that makes me say that is how you post about missing your family and feeling lonely. They say "the best things in life are free" and I believe it. The grass is always greener until you get over to the other side, then you realize it's fertilized with manure. You have unhappy rich people and you have unhappy poor people. It's the human way to find faults in whatever situation you're in. Alright, so I'm tired and ranting. Moving on.

Anyway, a few things:

This isn't a "Christmas party" per se, but it will be between now and Christmas?

This will be family and friends? Close friends or like business contacts?

Are you wanting to incorporate holiday themes as well as the Venetian theme?

Whatever the outcome, I really hope you get to see your friend/ QTpie crush who makes you so happy. Get to hang out with him and enjoy the relaxed environment of a holiday party!

 

I think a masquerade party and all of the opulence that comes with it would be really great for New Years, I'm not really sure about that theme for Christmas though. I think at Christmas people want a bit less fuss, something a little more informal, an excuse to get out their hideous Christmas jumpers (sweaters) and drink some mulled wine. I went to a tree-trimming party 2 years ago, where everybody comes with an ornament to place on your tree (it can be generic or personal). It sounds crap but it turned out to be really enjoyable.
Your idea is good though (maybe lose the petting zoo :lol Also, instead of having violinists, I would probably suggest going with a piano, it would lend itself much better to Christmas music and creates a slightly nicer ambiance.

 

I think it sounds great, especially the masquerade part. The only thing I think you should change is instead of just playing classical music, play classical music with a Christmas theme, and maybe have the servants wear more Christmas themed clothing, like red formal suits with white gloves and Santa hats but you can experiment with your own ideas for costumes as well. Also consider having the ice sculpture Christmas themed. By doing all of that, it should be perfect. Good luck.

 

I love your ideas!
Its interesting how families celebrate Christmas in so many different but fantastical ways

 

Yay! I'm glad she liked your idea! Since she does this for a job, I'd seriously give all ideas that she comes up with a hard thought. She's seen what works and what doesn't. Don't feel like she's shooting you down.

I absolutely understand you. I'm not in the same situation as you, but I can close my eyes and imagine what it would be like if I was in your situation.

I do love the piano. It's a beautiful instrument. I learned how to touch-type because I love how a piano player's hands flow so smoothly.

I'm sure it'll be a great party!

 

I think it would be nice to cook a nice meal together instead and have some time to be with your family, and just talk.

I'd donate the money it would take to throw such an extravagant event to those who aren't going to get anything for Christmas.

Maybe go out as a group, and volunteer at a homeless shelter, instead. That way, you'll better appreciate what you have in life.

 

Why don't you write down all your ideas, sum up how much it will cost, then half that amount and use that as your new budget and donate the other half to charity. You can tell each of your guests that you donated on their behalf.

 

Actually, that sounds better. I apologize if I came across as crabby. Sorry about that, I get carried away.

 

If you work to earn your money, why should you give it away?

I'm not rich at ALL (I have $10 in my wallet and I'm making biodiesel in the backyard from old fryer oil so I don't have to but fuel) but I firmly believe that in life you have to work to get what you want, and if you do that you shouldn't feel bad about it and give your money away.

If a rich person WANTS to donate, fine. I just think if you work for it, you should spend it as you please.

 

I suppose. Though if you just have it given to you and go on and on about it, it becomes tiresome. And it's not a question of having to, but what might make the world a better, more peaceful place. Income inequality ultimately erodes social cohesion, taken too far.