Question(s).... Where are all the Femme gay guys,and what's this seperation I hear about in the community about ,Masculine gays not accepting the femmes Are there any sites for a guy like myself whose looking for femmes?
nobody likes differences, unfortunately ---------- Post added 31st Oct 2013 at 01:56 PM ---------- there is no hate on EC
Generally Masc gays say that all the discrimination against Gay Society happens because of femme gays giving it a bad picture, [e.g. in the media and movies, when someone has to play the gay guy role, he's usually acting feminine and girly]. The result of this is that they can't come out of the closet because when they tell people they are gay, most tend to think of the stereotypical girly twink type, and some masc gays believe that feminine gays act so girly on purpose, just to put up a show and draw attention [which is wrong], so there's some gay-on-gay hate going on in the community, but this does not apply for all straight-looking gays, just some with issues. I started a thread about it not long ago, you can take a look but please don't bump it http://emptyclosets.com/forum/chit-chat/107139-face-gay-community.html
I think I am about as fem a guy as you can get without actually being a girl, though I am honestly not sure what a femme gay person would be? Is it just the way they look, or the way they act too?
There are many femme gay guys out there. I actively seek them out. I'm a femme genderqueer, so yes, we exist. Though I'm not sure there's an online community dedicated to femmes.
I love feminine guys. Not too relevant to the question, though. I don't know of any sites, and I wouldn't be allowed to link them anyway I hear about said discrimination all too much, unfortunately.
Thanks guys for all the love,and responses. I'm still new here,forgot bout the linking thingy. What lead me here to this site is the search for like minded people. And of course femmes,lol. But seriously I was lead here, by a google search I did on femmes. Hope everyone had an eventful Halloween:eusa_danc