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Build your DREAM guy or girl!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by robotman, Oct 31, 2013.

  1. robotman

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    Okay, I made this thread so that we can all build our dream guy or girl! This thread is basically about building someone who you want. I will go first!

    My dream guy would

    - Be taller than me or my height.
    - Be a rude boy (I love rude boys but I don't know where I would ever meet one in the gay world lol) or nerdy guys (they are kinda cute :icon_redf) or just normal acting and not camp guys (I don't mean to offend anyone).
    - Nice, up for a laugh, can sit and lounge about watching TV all day but is also up for going out to places and doing interesting things.
    - Loves hugs.
    - Likes the same things as me and if he doesn't I don't care that just means we can debate lol.
    - Look like someone I am attracted too. I am attracted to many different types of people so this shouldn't be too hard! (I think this is obvious since you wouldn't go out with someone if you didn't find them attractive).
    - Rough but also gentle and passionate in the bedroom... I haven't even had sex yet but I know what I would enjoy lol.
    - Someone that can bring me out of my shell and make me laugh (vice versa).
    - Is 100% committed to me (wouldn't cheat on me).
    - Can be honest and open with me and not hide how he is feeling or who he is.

    I think I am done. So what is your dream guy or girl like? :icon_cool
     
  2. AwesomGaytheist

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    He's not everything I dreamt of, but he's still the guy of my dreams. He's someone who understands me and loves me for my personality, because I really don't have much to offer physically.
     
  3. Hexagon

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    -Any gender
    -Vegetarian or vegan
    -Left wing politics (but don't have to be identical to mine)
    -Introverted
    -Rebellious
    -Shares my world view
    -Likes piercings and tatts. Doesn't have to have them, but hey, I do, so it wouldn't really work if that was a significant problem
    -Be willing to stand up for what they believe in
    -Intelligent
    -Be accepting and understanding of my gender (duh)
    -Will not push me to celebrate xmas
     
  4. StillHere

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    Hmm...
    -guy
    -skinny/small muscled
    -maybe a nerd?? I like glasses :slight_smile:.
    -doesn't like to eat out fancy
    -loves to cuddle.
    -comfortable in bed (bottoming and topping)
    -semi outgoing and can make me laugh.
    -nice and helpful

    I know I will know him when I see him <3.
     
  5. Mr Bubbles

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    -guy
    -well proportioned body
    -descent muscle size (doesn't have to be a body builder or anything, just something definitive)
    -likes to cuddle
    -taller or same height as me
    -open-minded when it comes to politics
    -able to bring me out of my shell a bit (I'm somewhat shy)
    -willing to have pets
    -has a soft side but is over all fairly masculine in appearance and attitude
    -atheist or agnostic
    -loves video games, but is athletic as well
    -short to medium length hair
    -honest
     
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    -They would have to be intelligent (I talk about quantum mechanics far more than I should)
    -Smaller than me
    -able to deal with my dark moods
    -preferably social to counteract my hermit-like nature
    -liking video games would be fun
    -being able to appreciate my taste in music is necessary
    -kind of effiminate (if guy) or masculine (if girl) but not too extreme. Androgynous basically.
     
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    -They'd have to identify as male.
    -Have a very small interest in sex/sexual activities ( I have no interest in it and wouldn't be able to provide them with their needs)
    -Accepts me for who I am
    -Can be nerdy with me
    -Likes Video Games
    -Athletic
    -Has a sense of Humor
    -Good taste in Music
    -More on the Feminine side
    -Vegetarian
    -Not religious
     
  8. gravechild

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    You don't have to be a Leonardo da Vinci, but open-mindedness, curiosity, and passion all go a long way

    Someone on the laid back side, to curb my ADHD-esque lifestyle

    Shares similar values, experiences, and interests

    Not prejudiced or bigoted; neutral or moderate when it comes to politics, religion, social issues

    In decent physical health, and/or has a semi-active lifestyle

    Preferably educated, employed or trying to find employment, and independent

    They have to be understanding and supportive of LGBT issues

    Trustworthy, dedicated, honest, and emotionally balanced

    Adventurous as I am in the bedroom

    Able to put up with my BS :lol:
     
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    - eyes i can stare at all day long. innocent looking eyes.
    - around my height shorter or taller but i'm 6'0.
    - less than my weight i'm 195lbs strong.
    - i prefer short hair but hair that just fits his face. (thats pretty indescribeable because everyone is different) though i love some peoples curly hair.
    - smiling with great straight teeth...probably the only thing i like about justin bieber but i love teeth...i'd love to feel them with my tongue.
    - not so hairy except for legs and around down there where he trimmed it for me.
    - a voice that had the perfect pitch and tone. i love voices too! different kinds are all angelic. even hoarse ones sometimes.
    - a decent sized you know what but not big/huge. i've had the perfect one or so i thought until he went away.
    - a listener. unless he's telling me something that i don't understand. a good conversationalist and patient. a laugher.
    - someone who wants to share the world with me...show it to me...or learn from me. even learn new things together.
    - a nice round firm but perfect bounce to his buttcheeks.

    That is All. lol. We'd work and get rich together.
     
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    YES! Someone who can understand and DEAL with my ADHD and not get upset. Everyone gets so upset so easily with me. If they decide to push me, i end up pushing back. Its so difficult sometimes. I tend to understand other people with ADHD...unless we are in different places in our lives. Then we're too busy for each other.
     
  11. DrkRayne

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    I have mine...if only she liked ranch dressing....

    Okay all joke aside, my wife is my dream girl. And its funny because before I met her I was having a hypothetical conversation with a friend describing my dream girl. I said:

    She'd have to have:
    Dark Hair
    Light eyes
    shorter than me
    kinda sporty but femme
    speak several languages
    Being from another country is a plus
    accents are hot
    love rock music
    like sci-fi
    be a nerd
    intelligent, college educated
    non-religious
    understand my circumstances with my church
    Wants children.


    Yeah I opened my mouth, the universe listened and dropped her in my lap a year later.
    I'm engaged to a Lebanese woman who immigrated and got her citizenship, Giant comic book nerd who plays video games with me. She has 3 degrees in IT field, 5'2" and a size 6. Speak English, French and Arabic, beautiful, green eyes, accent. Does basketball, martial arts and parkour. Very family oriented and wants kids. Sci-fi geek to the point were naming our daughter after characters from a tv show. She gets and laughs at my jokes takes care of me. Is caring and loving and just....I can't even describe how amazing she is.

    Yeah she is totally out of my league, and I'm surprised she's still here.but...I'm grateful everyday to wake up next to her and will call her my wife officially next August.
     
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    That's fantastic luck! Congratulations :icon_bigg
     
  13. Formality

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    About my height
    Athletic
    Music lover
    Face and body according to my preferences (tall like me and with wide shoulders)
    I'd love for him to have a beauty mark kinda like Jake Gyllenhaal.
    Loves to cuddle
    Be able to talk about deep stuff, and be deep in general.
    Intellectual.
    Have the same humour as me.
    Be able to talk about anything.
    Compassionate.
    Sympathetic.
    A happy person.
    And I want him to just like some couples do; smile every time he sees me, just like I will at him.
    Not be afraid to speak his mind.

    And so on.....
     
  14. Inferno

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    My dream partner would be:

    A brunette (I have a weird fetish for brown hair)
    Tall
    Funny
    Honest
    Interesting
    Love cuddles
    Doesn't pressure me
    Crazy (but not scarily crazy)
    Loves to read
    Brave
    Has an absurd hatred for ducks
    Nerdy
    Loves video games
    YouTuber
    Loyal
    A genuinely happy person
    Knows what to do in bed.


    I have realised how difficult it is going to be to find this human.
     
  15. That1Guy

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    No need to build one, I already have him :slight_smile:
     
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    -Compassionate
     
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    Okay. My dream partner would be:

    -Male
    -Tall
    -Lean, yet muscular
    -Asian or caucasian (Don't call me racist. I just find these people more attractive.)
    -Is willing to try out new things (both in bed and in other aspects of life.)
    -Masculine-ish, but not to an extreme degree
    -Moderate length hair
    -Someone I could tell the truth to
    -Trusting
    -Understanding
    -Puts up with my mistakes
    -Is gentle
    -Warm and kind
    -Comfortable with contact
    -Extroverted
    -Knows when to back off
    -Loves me

    So, yeah. If I met someone with all of these, I would be delighted beyond belief, but even someone with most of these or even a moderate amount would still be great guys.
     
  18. An Gentleman

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    - Gender is irrelevant
    -"Sharp" features, or angular features
    - East Asian
    - Doesn't want kids (children are evil)
    - Shares some common interests
    - Willing to talk about sports
    - Does not call me a girl
    - Likes video games
    - Preferably masculine, but that depends on the person
    - If they're a girl, I'd like it if they have a Hime Cut
    - Willing to debate with me
    - Smart
    - Doesn't like physical contact too much
     
  19. William

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    -Girl
    -Rude as shit
    -Shuts up when the game is on
    -Makes a damn good sandwich!
    JUST KIDDING!! I actually wouldn't know.
     
  20. JakeHas

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    The perfect guy, eh?
    Well I've been with him for over 6 months, he lives 812 miles away from me, and I wouldn't trade him for the world and everything in it c: