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What’s the most important quality in your significant other?

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  1. English Frenchman

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    People of the Internet!
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    I ask you today, what do you think is the most important thing your partner should have?
    It can be physical (Hello Mr. Magic Mike) or it can be mental (Oh, myyy).
    Hell, it can even be something they can make or do for you.

    Let the floodgates open! :smilewave
     
  2. Owen

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    Well seeing as I'm androsexual, I'd say the most important thing is that my significant other have more masculine sex traits than feminine ones. Otherwise the chances of attraction just aren't there. :slight_smile:

    Going past the sarcastic obvious, I think the most important thing is that we value the same things in life, that we value the same characteristics, the same goals in life, the same ideas, etc. If that piece is there, I think everything else will fall into place.

    It's also pretty important that he be chubby, as I have literally never been attracted to a guy who wasn't on the heavier side.
     
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    Someone with imagination and kindness.
     
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    Is s/he willing to look in my direction?

    Can I hold a decent conversation with them?

    Are they trans chasers? If so, be gone.

    My standards have fallen pretty low, heh.
     
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    She absolutely has to have an amazing laugh and she has to use it often. :icon_bigg
    Laughter is the best thing in the entire world and nothing makes me happier than laughing with people I love.
     
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    Someone who loves me at my best and still loves me at my worst.

    I know, that's incredibly cheesy but its very accurate to me.
     
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    Love, not really just toward me but also including kindness and compassion for others. The second most important thing would be creativity/intelligence (I would love if he was a musician), but it can never supplant kindness.
     
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    Open-Mindedness and compassion are most important I would say. :slight_smile:
     
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    Shared interests are always a must. Aside from that I want someone who is very direct and takes charge of a situation. Appearance is somewhat important to me, but it is not very high on the scale, except for eyes. I have a thing for beautiful eyes! I can get past any physical imperfection if someone has good eyes and a kind heart.
     
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    I think mainly being caring, very affectionate and able to deal with how I act. And willing to just... talk. That's pretty much everything.
     
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    compassion.
     
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    someone who can put a big smile on my face .:icon_bigg
     
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    yup kindness!
     
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    All I need is a kind and understanding person :slight_smile:
    (superficial as it is, hot too)
     
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    Compassion, maybe? Something related to that, anyway. Sure, there are things I find more attractive, like... tits, for instance, but relationships are about more than that, and without fundamental things, the relationship won't work, and I won't consider them to be a good person.
     
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    I like are anarchists :wink:
     
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    I am incredibly picky, but I haven't figured out what the criteria is.
     
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    Willingness to give me a hug, but also willingness not to touch me if I'm not in the mood.
     
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    Someone who is relaxed and not a pain in the ass.