Empty Closets Coming Out Resources and a Safe Place to Chat
Welcome Forum Chat Room Resources News Members

Go Back   Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered people coming out > General Chat > Chit Chat

Chit Chat General discussion of topics of interest to LGBT people of all ages.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 9th Jun 2008, 09:44 PM   #1
RGX Guy
Guest
 
Posts: n/a


Default Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

I can't go to the pool for a week because I didn't clean the kitchen when all I was told to do was clean my room before I left. : |

Here's what was wrong.
1. The trash wasn't taken out (I didn't even know it was full because I didn't use the trash can or check it before I left for the pool)

2. There were 3 cans for recycling on the counter (ok i probably should have gotten that on my way out)

3. There were dishes (clean) in the dishwasher that I was going to put up when I got back from the pool.

4. There were some dirty dishes in the sink.

No one told me to clean the kitchen and I had people waiting so I didn't bother. I don't think I should have to stay home for a whole WEEK because of one slip up. That seems a little extreme to me.

I get good grades, I don't bully anyone, I try to control my step brother from being a jerk to my little brother, i don't smoke, i don't do drugs, i don't drink, if you ask me to do something I'll do it, i don't run around having sex, i don't curse, i make curfew, i don't argue with my parents over stuff (95% of the time and even then its nothing big just like "do i have to?")

I'm a good kid compared to my other friends so why do they act like I'm doing everything wrong if I make a small slip up with cleaning?

Gees.

My rant for the day. Lol.
  Reply With Quote
Old 10th Jun 2008, 11:25 AM   #2
The gay gargoyle
EC Advisor
 
Lexington's Avatar
 
Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Out Status: Out to everyone
Location: Colorado
Age: 42
Posts: 12,370
Join Date: Dec 2007


Default Re: Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

No more than kids take good parents for granted.

Lex
Lexington is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10th Jun 2008, 12:01 PM   #3
writeawaytheday
Guest
 
Posts: n/a


Default Re: Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

I agree with you, my mom takes me and my two siblings for granted sometimes. We, all have good grades, stay out of drugs, smoking, alcohol etc. but, I think that it's just that everyone falls into a routine, parents relying on their kids to do things, just like kids rely on their parents to do things. So I think that as much as i feel i am being taken for granted, my parents probably feel the same way.
Hope I helped
  Reply With Quote
Old 10th Jun 2008, 12:06 PM   #4
EC Addict
Full Member
 
Bryan90's Avatar
 

Gender: Male
Orientation: Gay
Location: Toronto, Canada
Age: 22
Posts: 668
Join Date: Nov 2006


Default Re: Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

Funny thing is sometimes, parents hide their actual intentions of doing certain things.. Perhaps your parents didn't want you to go to the pool for specific reasons, and had to use the kitchen as an excuse?
__________________

"But only in their dreams can man be truly free. 'Twas always thus, and always thus will be." - John Keating, Dead Poets Society
Bryan90 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10th Jun 2008, 02:10 PM   #5
Nicvcer
Guest
 
Posts: n/a


Default Re: Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

Your parents sound emotionally abusive...
  Reply With Quote
Old 10th Jun 2008, 04:19 PM   #6
Wreck Cognition
Full Member
 
Jeimuzu's Avatar
 

Gender: Heterogametic
Orientation: Rawr.
Out Status: 99% out.
Location: Middlesbrough
Age: 23
Posts: 1,744
Join Date: Aug 2007


Default Re: Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

Some parents have bad days. They're only human, like the rest of us, and they're not always going to be fair. It is harsh, and it's a stupid punishment, too. Kids who go out and happily exercise should be encouraged in the modern world.
__________________
Jeimuzu is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 14th Jun 2008, 11:14 PM   #7
RGX Guy
Guest
 
Posts: n/a


Default Re: Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

Yeah. I think they were having a bad day.
No they aren't emotionally abusive. Lol.

And I agree with Lex now. Sometimes I do take them for granted.
  Reply With Quote
Old 15th Jun 2008, 02:35 AM   #8
Wreck Cognition
Full Member
 
Jeimuzu's Avatar
 

Gender: Heterogametic
Orientation: Rawr.
Out Status: 99% out.
Location: Middlesbrough
Age: 23
Posts: 1,744
Join Date: Aug 2007


Default Re: Would you agree that sometimes parents take good kids for granted?

Quote:
Originally Posted by RGX Guy View Post
Yeah. I think they were having a bad day.
No they aren't emotionally abusive. Lol.

And I agree with Lex now. Sometimes I do take them for granted.
Yeah, although I really can think of quite a few parents who do take their kids for granted.
__________________
Jeimuzu is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
this bothers me bad... but am i a bad person? Jerr Chit Chat 52 22nd Apr 2009 12:33 AM
if it is safe to tell your parents, then do. downboyup Coming Out Stories 3 10th Aug 2007 11:56 AM
who to turn to when parents, relatives, co workers, and good freinds wont except you? Adamg Support and Advice 3 25th Mar 2007 12:04 AM
Coming Out - What to expect guide Seth Support and Advice 2 22nd Feb 2007 06:58 AM


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 01:55 AM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.6.0
Copyright ©2004 - 2012, Empty Closets. The Empty Closets name and logo are registered trademarks.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11