Who do you trust the most?

No one.

 

No one. Especially after what's all happened this year, I'm going to be keeping most people at arm's length for a long time.

 

My best friend, L. I’ve known him since I was 3 years old. He’s been with me through thick and thin and he’s the first person I came out to. I’d trust him with my life.

 

This. I've given them all chances and they all blew it.

 

Myself.

Besides that, one of my close friends. Let's call him D. I know he'll always be there if I ever really need someone.

 

Myself. Nobody else has nearly as much stake in my own welfare as I do.

 

This: Part II
Just asking myself why is always like this...

 

Not many people, and even the ones I trust, I don't trust 100%.

These would be my immediate family. I would also add friends that go back to childhood, though I think anything personal I would tell them would also end up on their siblings' breakfast tables, so I don't trust them 100%, either.

I guess it's safe to say I have trust "issues."

 

My husband. He's my rock.

 

My sister. Having an important age difference, I've always viewed her as a role model with whom I could tell anything. When she told me she was a lesbian this year, I don't think I've ever felt so close to her. With her being away from home so often, I miss her terribly but I always know that she'll be there to cheer me up and for me to confide to in my darkest days.

 

I don't trust too many people, to be honest, but that's because I'm really shy and it takes a while for me to open up to someone. If I started surrounding myself with more people and allowing them in, I like to think I'd have more people to trust.

That said, I trust my mom completely. Even when I have to talk to her about something that makes me uncomfortable. But even when I'm anxious or upset or unsure, she's always been there to support and help me.

 

My cat.

 

No one. I’ve been disappointed in people around me too many times, so at this point it’s really hard for me to trust anyone.

 

Myself. And I think my brother too. But definitely myself.

 

I'm going to say my best friend, but that's a stretch. I have difficulty trusting people.

 

My brothers, they're my best friends, I know that they're there for me. They've never done anything to hurt me, and I don't really trust anyone else at all.

 

I could only trust my mom so far. She would use money and gifts to get you to like her or do what she wanted. Most of the time when I told her a secret she would use it against me to criticize me. I learned not to trust people from her. My dad did the same thing but to a lesser extent since I didn't see him as much.

 

My parents, except they have no idea what to make of me being bi. It's not that they don't love me, it's just that they don't understand.

And, believe it or not, my ex-gf. She and I are perfect as friends but not as romantic partners--and not because I'm bi.

 

You have got to be kidding. Trust? What is this 'trust'?