It's exactly the same as before, I'm really at ease and friendly towards girls, and if they don't know me that well or know I'm gay they tend to get attracted, then pissed of when they find out.
Hard to say. I originally had a small amount of friends through elementary school. 3 or 4 guys maybe and only one or two girls. During middle school around the time I realised I was gay, and through the first couple years of high school around when I came out, I talked to girls almost exclusively. Though alot of them ended up coincidentally moving away and by the time I was a senior it was mainly just straight guys I talked to. Right now it's evened out I guess. Oh I'm only counting IRL/school friends here for the record. On the internet I always talked to both nearly the same amount. But yeah there's no correlation to my sexuality and what gender I get on with better or anything like that.
Most of my female friends who know are closer to me now than before they knew. I think there's always that subconscious "I can't get too close because he might like me" thing, but when they know that's not going to happen, they open up a bit more.
To the handful of girls that know I feel quite a bit closer to them since I told them. Partly because I used to always try not to get too close to girls in case they thought I liked them and partly because I think girls feel more comfortable being close to someone who they know isn't interested in them like that. I just feel a lot less pressure with relationships with girls now and it's great.
I haven't came out but I have noticed some girls like to talk to me. They find it easier. White girls completely avoid me lol. It is usually black and Asian girls that like talking to me. I guess it is because they suspect I'm not the typical guy and won't get all sexual with them.
