The adults in my family always say that im gonna be a heart breaker when im older... is that bad or good? I mean i dont want to break peoples hearts because that is mean right? They also say im a good looking boy for a 14yo and that girls should be chasingme wich they do butthey get pushed down by me ... i try not to let my non-liking of girls be so obvious with me in the closet and all ... i just dont want to be mean