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Do you need to be loved in life ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Beware Of You, Nov 17, 2013.

  1. Beware Of You

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    Everything is love this love that, society expects you to find a guy or a girl and fall in love etc.

    Why is this, why do you need love. Sometimes I am tempted just being alone
     
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    We are human beings we need a mate. It is hard wired into our heads. Anyway I think you said u had a bf so what are you complaining about lol?
     
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    Love is awesome. I never felt loved until I was 16.
     
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    It's instinct. Also, the best feeling in the world is having someone who loves you as much as you love them.
     
  6. Abraxas

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    As it was said, it is kind of hard wired into our very nature, but lots of people have moments of fluctuation, where at times, they're okay with being single, and then at other times, the craving for a partner/love/love, etc., is so strong, it's almost crushing.

    Some people actually don't have such a desire, to the passionate degree most of us do, and are okay without it.

    Some don't get to really wanting it until later, and some, at later, give up.

    Sounds like you're just in the hurt-by-ex stage. I've been there, and I've done that. Went for years being okay with being single, but, honestly, at this point in my life, I'm dying to have that love again.

    Fleeting feelings, s'all.
     
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    Well, I have love from family and friends, but I really want someone to love me love me, if you get me. I'm not coping too well without it, so... yeah, I feel like people are BETTER OFF with someone to love them. Whether there are some people who are perfectly capable without? Probably, but I'm not one of them.
     
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    Yes, it is very necessary to be loved. Love is the best feeling ever :slight_smile:
     
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    I want to be loved, and I want to love someone. (To quote Adam Levine: I really wanna love somebody! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)
     
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