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musicgirl112233 · 16th Jun 2008, 01:51 PM

I dont know if this goes here but any way, this was the worst B-day ever!!!! It was like 12:00 and me the my mom had just got back from shopping and I was about to get on EC. When my mom got this phone call saying that my grandpa had died

. This was the frist time I had seen my mom cry. They told her that she had to come to his house before they could move him. When we got there they ask my mom and I if we wanted to see him. So we went in his room when I got in there and saw the way he was I could belive it. I had to go outsided and this is why, yesterday me and my aunt went to his house to check up on him . My aunt did not get not of the car, she told me to go and see what up to. His brother let me in and I went to his room and stopped at the doorway cause I thought he was sleeping, and we went home. Today when I saw him he was in the same postion has last night and I cant stop thinking that if I would have when all the way in his room I could have saved him.

Steve · 16th Jun 2008, 01:53 PM

omg ... im so sorry

16th Jun 2008, 01:54 PM

Awww

its not your faullttt

heatqueen · 16th Jun 2008, 01:54 PM

awww *hugs* im soooo sorry!!!

it's awful that it had to happen on ur b-day.

16th Jun 2008, 01:56 PM

Ohhh no !!

I'm so sorry

16th Jun 2008, 01:56 PM

I'm so sorry, and please don't think about what you could have done. It's not your fault!Just think about the good times you had with him and all the things he enjoyed doing. Again, I'm so sorry and I really hope you are okay.

musicgirl112233 · 16th Jun 2008, 02:08 PM

Thank Guys

panda · 16th Jun 2008, 03:15 PM

I'm so sorry this happened on your birthday. There's nothing you could have done. When it's time to go,it's time to go.
Remember the good times,the happy moments . That's the memory of grandpa to carry with you.

16th Jun 2008, 03:23 PM

Aww thats awful that it happened on your birthday =[. Remember the good times and don't feel like it's your fault.

**lostinthought9** · 16th Jun 2008, 04:09 PM

I'm so sorry...It is NOT your fault!! Don't torture yourself by thinking that!

musicgirl112233 · 16th Jun 2008, 04:14 PM

**Gerry** · 16th Jun 2008, 04:41 PM

I'm really sorry to hear about your grandpa. There's nothing you could've done, and like Panda said, when it's time to go, it's time to go... take care and we're all here for you if you need us hun.

KatzInHatz · 16th Jun 2008, 04:49 PM

I'm Terrible sorry to hear of your loss. And no it's not your fault!

davo-man · 16th Jun 2008, 05:23 PM

My sympathies go out to you and your family (especially your mum)

There's nothing you could have done for him and when it's your time to go, it's your time to go. as people have said above me, just remember all the awesome fun times you have with him, and I'm sure that's what he would have wanted.

16th Jun 2008, 01:51 PM	#1
musicgirl112233 Soy Un Perdedor Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Some people Location: South Carolina Age: 17 Posts: 939 Join Date: Apr 2008	The worst B-day ever I dont know if this goes here but any way, this was the worst B-day ever!!!! It was like 12:00 and me the my mom had just got back from shopping and I was about to get on EC. When my mom got this phone call saying that my grandpa had died. This was the frist time I had seen my mom cry. They told her that she had to come to his house before they could move him. When we got there they ask my mom and I if we wanted to see him. So we went in his room when I got in there and saw the way he was I could belive it. I had to go outsided and this is why, yesterday me and my aunt went to his house to check up on him . My aunt did not get not of the car, she told me to go and see what up to. His brother let me in and I went to his room and stopped at the doorway cause I thought he was sleeping, and we went home. Today when I saw him he was in the same postion has last night and I cant stop thinking that if I would have when all the way in his room I could have saved him. __________________ " Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." -A Midsummer Night's Dream Our differences provide opportunties for greater understanding.

16th Jun 2008, 01:53 PM	#2
Steve EC's Soldier! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Sargeant sexual Out Status: whoever asks Location: Born in australia, but now living some where else Age: 21 Posts: 2,273 Join Date: May 2008	Re: The worst B-day ever omg ... im so sorry __________________ Soldier " there is no room for that in my pocklet" commander " if there is room in your heart then there in your pocket" Soldier " i cant fit my gf in there" -r " have you tried ? until you try you dont know"

16th Jun 2008, 01:54 PM	#3
EthanS Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The worst B-day ever Awww its not your faullttt

16th Jun 2008, 01:54 PM	#4
heatqueen Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,703 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: The worst B-day ever awww hugs im soooo sorry!!! it's awful that it had to happen on ur b-day. __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians.

16th Jun 2008, 01:56 PM	#5
JSG Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The worst B-day ever Ohhh no !! I'm so sorry

16th Jun 2008, 01:56 PM	#6
yahooooo Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The worst B-day ever I'm so sorry, and please don't think about what you could have done. It's not your fault!Just think about the good times you had with him and all the things he enjoyed doing. Again, I'm so sorry and I really hope you are okay.

16th Jun 2008, 02:08 PM	#7
musicgirl112233 Soy Un Perdedor Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Some people Location: South Carolina Age: 17 Posts: 939 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: The worst B-day ever Thank Guys __________________ " Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." -A Midsummer Night's Dream Our differences provide opportunties for greater understanding.

16th Jun 2008, 03:15 PM	#8
panda EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: Toronto,Canada Age: 67 Posts: 4,653 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: The worst B-day ever I'm so sorry this happened on your birthday. There's nothing you could have done. When it's time to go,it's time to go. Remember the good times,the happy moments . That's the memory of grandpa to carry with you.

16th Jun 2008, 03:23 PM	#9
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: The worst B-day ever Aww thats awful that it happened on your birthday =[. Remember the good times and don't feel like it's your fault.

16th Jun 2008, 04:09 PM	#10
lostinthought9 EC's Biggest Xena Fan EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Louisiana Age: 21 Posts: 2,058 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: The worst B-day ever I'm so sorry...It is NOT your fault!! Don't torture yourself by thinking that! __________________

16th Jun 2008, 04:14 PM	#11
musicgirl112233 Soy Un Perdedor Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Some people Location: South Carolina Age: 17 Posts: 939 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: The worst B-day ever __________________ " Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." -A Midsummer Night's Dream Our differences provide opportunties for greater understanding.

16th Jun 2008, 04:41 PM	#12
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,537 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: The worst B-day ever I'm really sorry to hear about your grandpa. There's nothing you could've done, and like Panda said, when it's time to go, it's time to go... take care and we're all here for you if you need us hun. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

16th Jun 2008, 04:49 PM	#13
KatzInHatz W/E Omg Im Single And Im Loving It~ Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: My 2 BFFs! ^.^ Location: Montreal Age: 19 Posts: 1,360 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: The worst B-day ever I'm Terrible sorry to hear of your loss. And no it's not your fault! __________________ Msn conversation with my sister~! Me: Why is your school giving you a ped day so close to Winter break~? Sister: Because they are stupied~! Me: LOL~! I love how you spelled "stupid" wrong~!

16th Jun 2008, 05:23 PM	#14
davo-man Aspiring RENThead Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out (YAY) Location: Australia Age: 22 Posts: 3,709 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: The worst B-day ever My sympathies go out to you and your family (especially your mum) There's nothing you could have done for him and when it's your time to go, it's your time to go. as people have said above me, just remember all the awesome fun times you have with him, and I'm sure that's what he would have wanted. __________________ The Joker Rules all.... TwoFace comes a close second! My Friends are the best people in the world Ross: Wow, you guys sure have a lot of books about being a lesbian. Susan: Well, you know, you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it.

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