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crimsonarcher · 16th Jun 2008, 10:07 PM

What are you goals?
It could be a goal you've had for a long time, or one you've been thinking about.
Heck, it could be unrealistic!
My goal is to be the first chair violinist of the Mexico City Philharmonic Orchestra.
realistic? I'm not sure.

16th Jun 2008, 10:09 PM

Hmm the only goals I've really mused about are to be straight and to live forever. Both of which seem unlikely.

Hoppip · 16th Jun 2008, 10:09 PM

CAREER

Get an Associate's degree in Dental Hygiene. After a couple years, go all the way and become a Doctor of Dental Surgery! (...aka dentist!)

LANGUAGES

Become completely fluent in French.

HOUSING

Own a condo? I don't think I could do city. Perhaps suburbs, or in the mountains! ~<3

LOVE

This will never be a priority for me, or a goal. What happens happens!

EDIT: I will, one day, have sex in a mirror maze. I dunno how I'll manage this, BUT I WILL!

Miaplacidus · 16th Jun 2008, 10:13 PM

Get out of Uruguay, finish my studies, get a boyfriend and a Mac Pro... lol.

LOVEjames · 16th Jun 2008, 10:14 PM

Oh god... I had a list a long time ago... I know that like... 10 of them were sexual. And I know one of them was to be fluent in 5 languages by the time I'm 30. And... uh... o.o I'll make another list. >_>

Chamber of Life · 16th Jun 2008, 10:18 PM

Well I have alot of goals

1) Get my movie up and running, start filming soon
2) Get over my ex-boyfriend
3) Write my first novel
4) Write my first pilot and send it to networks
5) Get into a good college next year
6) Tell my parents I'm gay
7) Learn more about my self & others
8) Tell my step dad to go fuck him self and jump off a bridge!

MeskElil · 16th Jun 2008, 10:20 PM

Hmm....

Academic: Get into a good college (maybe Berkeley or Santa Barbara or San Fransisco).
Career: Become an ultra-Chemist. Woot!
Recreational: GET A BOOK PUBLISHED, goddammit! *frustrated with self*
Housing: Live somewhere in a coastal town, like San Fransisco or Santa Barbara, don't care in what, apartment or house.
Family: Make peace with my mom...after I get out of the house.
Love: Well, we'll see, but I hope to find the woman of my dreams...

Yeah...sure...

And that's prety much it...

davo-man · 16th Jun 2008, 10:22 PM

1) Save up 10,000 (which leads onto the next one)
2) Move to Toronto for 6 months as an exchange student
3) After the 6 months, take a trip around England, France and Italy
4) Learn basic Italian and French (I'm so screwed for that one)
5) Eat a lobster

Henrike · 16th Jun 2008, 11:09 PM

Well, I'm hoping to live in either Edinburgh or somewhere in Germany once I'm out of college. On an unrealistic note, My best friend and I thought about teaming up and making a super cool hat business. We'd sell super groovy hats and be ultra rich, not only striking gold in American consumerism, but also saving the floundering economy, all thanks to nifty hats. :^D

**Maddy** · 16th Jun 2008, 11:36 PM

So far, my only real goals are to finish school with good results, get a novel published, and find a girl who actually wants to be with me.

16th Jun 2008, 11:55 PM

. Get into UC Davis

. Be a successful scientist or physicist or doctor (can't decide on one field!)
. Be multi-lingual (French, Russian, German, Italian are my faves)
. Own houses in France, Germany, England, and California
. Find a guy that'll love me

. Learn how to save money

Vampyrecat · 17th Jun 2008, 02:38 AM

Get my Book trilogy Finished and published (Book one is on the way to Pan MacMillan)
Finish high school with a high TER score
Get a Bachelor of Medicine/Surgery
Pay off Hecs debts after uni & Move to the UK
Find someone I want to spend the rest of my life with.

That's my list...

Steve · 17th Jun 2008, 02:40 AM

1. get a bf
2. move out of dubai
3. get good grades in IB and college
4. genteicly evelve my bf so that he can have babies

pirateninja · 17th Jun 2008, 02:48 AM

Actually finish WRITING my novel at the moment, at least if it's written then I can attempt to do something with it.

Finish my art A level and carry it on in University, maybe get a job in illustrating.

Most of all I want to be happy. And I want people to be happy with me. I find it very hard to be happy if someone else isn't.

otc877 · 17th Jun 2008, 03:07 AM

Become a high school Anatomy/Biology teacher.

musicgirl112233 · 17th Jun 2008, 03:09 AM

Career- Something with Forensic Science

Pepsi · 17th Jun 2008, 05:31 AM

HMM I only have two

One:
Become completely fluent in Gaelic ( I know a few words but I really wanna master the language)

And Two:
Become a Marine Biologists

OO Make it Three:
I'd like to not be homeless in the future Cause I see homeless people on the street and that does not look fun.

ausdtc · 17th Jun 2008, 06:01 AM

Career: Currently working in a so-called "dead-end job", while it's not that bad, it's selling myself short. I had an opportunity to work from pretty much anywhere I like, doing something I enjoy and am (apparently) talented at. Because of some very complicated reasons I turned the job down in the end. My goal is to finish off the work that's preventing me from taking the job, and then taking the company up on their offer

Academic: Become fluent in German (Ich spreche schon ein bisschen Deutsch, aber nicht sehr gut!)

Love: Not really a goal, as you can't really plan these things. But! Find a guy to share my life with.

Family: Find the courage to come out to my parents, and siblings.

Recreational: Keep up swimming almost every day, and improve! And take up mountain biking.

Trumpetplyer23 · 17th Jun 2008, 06:08 AM

Career: Become at least a high school teacher. Aiming for college prof. though.

Academic: Kick ass throughout college and high school. Oh, and become fluent in French.

Love: eh....can't really set a goal here, so..find someone to spend my life with.

Family: Get the courage to stop my mom's biphobic comments..

Recreational: Play softball the rest of my high school career, after high school, keep working out. Play a few shows with my band, for fun.

Misc: Get over my old crush.

17th Jun 2008, 06:12 AM

my goal is to go to college and get a degree in zoology ( i love animals)

16th Jun 2008, 10:07 PM	#1
crimsonarcher Down-Pour Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: ... Location: AZ Posts: 1,051 Join Date: Apr 2007	Goals of fellow ECers What are you goals? It could be a goal you've had for a long time, or one you've been thinking about. Heck, it could be unrealistic! My goal is to be the first chair violinist of the Mexico City Philharmonic Orchestra. realistic? I'm not sure. __________________ Simple & Clean.

16th Jun 2008, 10:09 PM	#2
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Hmm the only goals I've really mused about are to be straight and to live forever. Both of which seem unlikely.

16th Jun 2008, 10:09 PM	#3
Hoppip look at the good i do Full Member Gender: Lv. 18 ♂ Orientation: Water / Dragon Out Status: Uncommon Location: Johto Posts: 1,562 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers CAREER Get an Associate's degree in Dental Hygiene. After a couple years, go all the way and become a Doctor of Dental Surgery! (...aka dentist!) LANGUAGES Become completely fluent in French. HOUSING Own a condo? I don't think I could do city. Perhaps suburbs, or in the mountains! ~<3 LOVE This will never be a priority for me, or a goal. What happens happens! EDIT: I will, one day, have sex in a mirror maze. I dunno how I'll manage this, BUT I WILL! __________________ KUDOS ME. I made myshelf pregnant. Last edited by Hoppip; 16th Jun 2008 at 10:15 PM..

16th Jun 2008, 10:13 PM	#4
Miaplacidus Cheshire Cat Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayer than not Out Status: Everyone who asks Location: Atlantida, Uruguay Age: 22 Posts: 5,080 Join Date: Feb 2007	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Get out of Uruguay, finish my studies, get a boyfriend and a Mac Pro... lol. __________________ We are all mad here.

16th Jun 2008, 10:14 PM	#5
LOVEjames \o/ Love! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: 4.9 Out Status: Pretty out Location: Seattle, WA Age: 21 Posts: 1,075 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Oh god... I had a list a long time ago... I know that like... 10 of them were sexual. And I know one of them was to be fluent in 5 languages by the time I'm 30. And... uh... o.o I'll make another list. >_> __________________ La la la la la.

16th Jun 2008, 10:18 PM	#6
Chamber of Life In my Naughty Tree!!! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most of my friends. Location: Ohio, USA Age: 21 Posts: 288 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Well I have alot of goals 1) Get my movie up and running, start filming soon 2) Get over my ex-boyfriend 3) Write my first novel 4) Write my first pilot and send it to networks 5) Get into a good college next year 6) Tell my parents I'm gay 7) Learn more about my self & others 8) Tell my step dad to go fuck him self and jump off a bridge!

16th Jun 2008, 10:20 PM	#7
MeskElil ♥♥EC's Resident Hippie Child♥♥ Full Member Gender: Tomboy Orientation: Questioning...still... Out Status: 2 great guys who are helping me through everything Location: Southern California Age: 20 Posts: 1,038 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Hmm.... Academic: Get into a good college (maybe Berkeley or Santa Barbara or San Fransisco). Career: Become an ultra-Chemist. Woot! Recreational: GET A BOOK PUBLISHED, goddammit! frustrated with self Housing: Live somewhere in a coastal town, like San Fransisco or Santa Barbara, don't care in what, apartment or house. Family: Make peace with my mom...after I get out of the house. Love: Well, we'll see, but I hope to find the woman of my dreams... Yeah...sure... And that's prety much it... __________________ Call me Mesk

16th Jun 2008, 10:22 PM	#8
davo-man Aspiring RENThead Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out (YAY) Location: Australia Age: 22 Posts: 3,709 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: Goals of fellow ECers 1) Save up 10,000 (which leads onto the next one) 2) Move to Toronto for 6 months as an exchange student 3) After the 6 months, take a trip around England, France and Italy 4) Learn basic Italian and French (I'm so screwed for that one) 5) Eat a lobster __________________ The Joker Rules all.... TwoFace comes a close second! My Friends are the best people in the world Ross: Wow, you guys sure have a lot of books about being a lesbian. Susan: Well, you know, you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it.

16th Jun 2008, 11:09 PM	#9
Henrike The Age of Tay Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Chicago Age: 21 Posts: 133 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Well, I'm hoping to live in either Edinburgh or somewhere in Germany once I'm out of college. On an unrealistic note, My best friend and I thought about teaming up and making a super cool hat business. We'd sell super groovy hats and be ultra rich, not only striking gold in American consumerism, but also saving the floundering economy, all thanks to nifty hats. :^D __________________

16th Jun 2008, 11:36 PM	#10
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,698 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers So far, my only real goals are to finish school with good results, get a novel published, and find a girl who actually wants to be with me. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

16th Jun 2008, 11:55 PM	#11
GunStarre Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Goals of fellow ECers . Get into UC Davis . Be a successful scientist or physicist or doctor (can't decide on one field!) . Be multi-lingual (French, Russian, German, Italian are my faves) . Own houses in France, Germany, England, and California . Find a guy that'll love me . Learn how to save money

17th Jun 2008, 02:38 AM	#12
Vampyrecat "Meow" Said the Cat. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Everybody who Matters to me. Location: 1 hour east of Portland, Vic. Age: 20 Posts: 1,622 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Get my Book trilogy Finished and published (Book one is on the way to Pan MacMillan) Finish high school with a high TER score Get a Bachelor of Medicine/Surgery Pay off Hecs debts after uni & Move to the UK Find someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. That's my list... __________________ Call me Tess. Hey lets all eat chocolate!!!!!!!!!! Nom nom nom. Is the EC Gf of Heatqueen. Telly forever

17th Jun 2008, 02:40 AM	#13
Steve EC's Soldier! Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Sargeant sexual Out Status: whoever asks Location: Born in australia, but now living some where else Age: 21 Posts: 2,273 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers 1. get a bf 2. move out of dubai 3. get good grades in IB and college 4. genteicly evelve my bf so that he can have babies __________________ Soldier " there is no room for that in my pocklet" commander " if there is room in your heart then there in your pocket" Soldier " i cant fit my gf in there" -r " have you tried ? until you try you dont know"

17th Jun 2008, 02:48 AM	#14
pirateninja EC's Sailor Uranus Full Member Gender: Biologically Female Orientation: Heterosexually Challenged Out Status: Most people Location: Bath, England Age: 21 Posts: 5,853 Join Date: Sep 2007	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Actually finish WRITING my novel at the moment, at least if it's written then I can attempt to do something with it. Finish my art A level and carry it on in University, maybe get a job in illustrating. Most of all I want to be happy. And I want people to be happy with me. I find it very hard to be happy if someone else isn't. __________________ Holly the Pirateninja Ars Longa, Vita Brevis.

17th Jun 2008, 03:07 AM	#15
otc877 ^_^ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most friends know Location: L.A. Outskirts Age: 22 Posts: 790 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Become a high school Anatomy/Biology teacher.

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Pepsi R-Y-R-Y Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out Location: Staten Island, NYC Age: 20 Posts: 4,348 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers HMM I only have two One: Become completely fluent in Gaelic ( I know a few words but I really wanna master the language) And Two: Become a Marine Biologists OO Make it Three: I'd like to not be homeless in the future Cause I see homeless people on the street and that does not look fun. __________________ "I'm not that typical baby. I'm a bad kid like my mom and dad made me. I'm not that cool and you hate me. I'm a bad kid, that's the way that they made me" - GAGA

17th Jun 2008, 06:01 AM	#18
ausdtc Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Brisbane, Australia Age: 26 Posts: 189 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Goals of fellow ECers Career: Currently working in a so-called "dead-end job", while it's not that bad, it's selling myself short. I had an opportunity to work from pretty much anywhere I like, doing something I enjoy and am (apparently) talented at. Because of some very complicated reasons I turned the job down in the end. My goal is to finish off the work that's preventing me from taking the job, and then taking the company up on their offer Academic: Become fluent in German (Ich spreche schon ein bisschen Deutsch, aber nicht sehr gut!) Love: Not really a goal, as you can't really plan these things. But! Find a guy to share my life with. Family: Find the courage to come out to my parents, and siblings. Recreational: Keep up swimming almost every day, and improve! And take up mountain biking.

17th Jun 2008, 06:12 AM	#20
Willywilly92 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Goals of fellow ECers my goal is to go to college and get a degree in zoology ( i love animals)