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What are you doing when you feel lonely?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Renge, Dec 2, 2013.

  1. Renge

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    Do you sometimes get that heartache? I mean for no damn reason at all. When I do, I usually sleep or writing something, sometimes crying myself to sleep
     
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    Going on the internet always helps. I guess since I feel that way most of the time I get used to it. :frowning2:
     
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    Yes, I get that feeling too. Usually when I see couples holding hands or hugging, but sometimes for no reason at all.
     
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    I usually go with my two passions, music and writing. I put my headphones in and write down whatever story has been forming in my head since there always seems to be a story forming in my mind.
     
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    I get that sometimes at night cause I hate sleeping alone. I experience it all the time but its reaches its peak at night heightened by how hopeless the darkness makes me feel and the increase in cold temperature. I come on the internet, listen to music, and play video games to distract myself. Ironically it's a waste of time, and most likely preventing me from meeting a new gf.
     
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    Oh sorry I misunderstood the title!

    When I'm having that feeling, I usually try to visualise the feeling and try to make something of it.
     
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    Um, I masturbate. Or just lie around listening to loud music. Or play videogames.
     
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    To me talking to friends really helps, going on the computer and getting in a call with them on Skype, my friends usually make me laugh so it helps. However when there not on I just watch youtube, or go on Steam
     
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    There are more feelings than lonely? Anyway, when it's really bad, I sit in the backyard and stare into the woods until it gets to dark to see.
     
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    Cry.. I feel better afterwards, its good to release the emotions.
     
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    When I get lonely, I tend to sleep, not eat and just walk around. I get lonely often so the feeling (and routine) is very familar .
     
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    I just lay down and stare at things. I zone out and daydream. Sometimes I listen to music, but usually I don't feel like getting up to turn it on.
     
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    Music and video games, always makes my world better.
     
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    I put on good noise-canceling headphones and turn up the music loud so I can drown everything else out. Sometimes I decide to distract myself by indulging in my passion and composing/producing. Other times I just go on the internets and research random stuff or kill time with humorous sites. I hate going to sleep when I feel that way, so I just do stuff like that until I feel better enough.
     
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    I get that feeling a lot. Usually at the end of a club meeting and everyone leaves talking and laughing. I love my clubs and really like the people in them, but when I try to talk to them outside of club business it just gets awkward. I have a couple online friends, and talking to them usually helps. Focusing on something else, like homework, has also helped.
     
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    I contemplate reality. Its counterproductive.
     
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    I usually listen to music and surf the web, read a book, or watch tv. In extreme cases, I go to my room to cry. While I feel silly doing it, it does release the emotions better than the other methods.
     
  18. drwinchester

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    When I'm feeling lonely? Give me ten minutes with my right hand.

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    Anyway, to answer your question- alas, the feeling's familiar. Feel like that all the time. Usually will just browse the internet, try to get my mind off things.
     
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    Anything to keep my mind from wandering. Like most, the Internet is a good distraction. Or I'll bury myself in some work or a new project. Even so, I personally have a hard time shaking those feelings most times.
     
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    if i feel lonely, i sometimes hang out with my best friend, play games (it's where i feel i am important), listen to music, or (may not be a good one) watch some gay love videos; those videos give me hope! sometimes at night, i just cuddle with my pillow...